Before diving into the deep end, let’s be upfront about what we’re both looking for to see if we match:

Dynamic & Roles

Defining our dynamic is something that will evolve naturally as we get to know each other. I'm a switch but lean towards a nurturing, mentor-like role – someone who geeks out about you, is your calming force and a guiding hand. Yet, even caretakers need care and dom drop is real and I'd quite enjoy you caring for me too; I’m not seeking a one-sided kink/cg dynamic but something long-term, romantic and lasting.

I have an analytical mind and a problem-solving nature which pulls me towards the vibrant and intense. Whether you're clingy or your life is coloured with ADHD/BPD or similar I'll warmly welcome it if we click! That said I’m not a sadist and mutual compassion is important to me. Wish fulfilment or love through pain isn’t really my style.

I aim for an authentic, vulnerable and organically developed connection and aren't interested in power for power's sake. I want to vicariously live through you and integrate that to have both of us be the best version of ourselves for ourselves. We can get creative with this. Maybe you like to please and want to be an "ideal girlfriend"? Perhaps you are struggling with anxiety and stress and yearn for relief and tranquillity or want to try something fun and wholesome like developing a headpat fetish or being a puppy/kitten. We could have on all that and more.

Some Interests & Hobbies

• Psychology and mental health: I love learning about the human mind and behaviour, and this has been somewhat of an obsession of mine for years now. I feel I can offer you my understanding and insights. Whether you need a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, or a gentle nudge, I'm here for you.
• Philosophy and spirituality: I enjoy exploring life's mysteries and having meaningful conversations. I'm agnostic because I don't want to assert I know or do know how everything works and is orchestrated. I love listening to different perspectives and beliefs and I prefer dialogues where we hear each other over debates where we argue or try to convince. I'm rather allergic to polarising and black and white thinking. I also enjoy looking into the essence and truths of things like astrology and examine deeper layers. We could find out what the stars have in store for us 😂
• Tech and gaming: I'm a talking wiki when it comes to technology as that's my major and what I did most of my life growing up. I don't really play competitive games anymore but I still like the social aspect of playing co-op games together like Stardew Valley and Minecraft, especially with tech mods where I can build and program things. Maybe we can collaborate on some projects or play some games together.
• Alternative and J-fashion: I have a keen eye for details and I'm a big fan of expressing yourself and wearing your heart on your sleeve. I'd be down to wear ouji to match with your lolita coord if you're into that but gosh isn't that just $$$. I like anything from coquette/dolletes styles to elegant goths to egirls (sadly the latter are only ever interested in money 😭 maybe you're different?)
• Voice and music: I used to be a sound engineer, voice actor and have the whole studio mic and set up. My voice range goes from throat singing to mommy dommy to uwu making me a bisexuals 2-for-1 dream haha My default is a deeper voice with a polish-irish accent. I also enjoy listening to and making music, and play a few eccentric instruments you've probably never heard of. I can show off or teach you some tricks sometime.
• Cooking, healthy living and DIY: I haven't eaten artificial sugar for the past decade and challenge myself to reinvent and take apart the small things in life we take for granted. I looked into the chemistry of food and tracked down the original coca cola and 7up recipes from the old soda fountain manuals and started making my own drinks and herb extracts from scratch. I make my own split keyboards, got into stenography and even made a ghetto EEG mask to study what kinda sleep I'm getting every day. Yea most of this probably didn't make much sense, you'd have to get used to geek speak but I'm open to explaining everything if you like learning.

If you've read this far, thank you for your time and attention. You're already special and pretty rare to me, and I'm curious about you. I wonder what you're thinking and what you want to know about me too. Maybe you're wondering why I don't want to have kids, how I sound or look like, or what my favourite colour is.
Well, let's talk! I'm looking forward to hearing from you. 💕