Hello hello,
I'm a 5'8, long dirty blonde hair, gentle sadist Dom. Been a Dom about 10 years, online and IRL experience. Kinda a bratty Dom, patient, looking for that long term connection we can build with communication and trust.
Have a b.s in mechanical engineering, currently working in aerospace and plan to keep working in this field. I enjoy gaming, swimming, music, cats, horror movies, naps. Tend to be a home body but I do enjoy going out when I have the right company. I'm definitely a nerd/geek, love a good challenge, the more I dont understand the more I'm driven to finding the answer.
Bdsm wise, been around a while and have gotten some experience with most kinks, so very little I'm not into in some manner. I very much enjoy using my submissives kinks to tease relentlessly. My personal favorites are praise/degradation as I enjoy being a bit vocal during play, orgasm control (edging, denial, overstim), impact play (especially biting), and more a fetish than kink but I love messes during play. Only limits are scat, diapers, vore, gore.
Outside the bedroom, I don't stress much. Take things as they come and looking to communicate and work with my partner. Looking to talk about our days, fantasies, goals. I can assign rules and check on them but keeping you accountable I see as flexible. I punish when I seem it is needed or fun for both but focus on why you failed and helping you grow from it. That's why I say I'm a gentle sadist, I'm not going to stress or be angry, but when I'm in bed I'm going to bite, slap, and punish you as rough as you'll let me.
Hmu if this interests you and you'd like to discuss. I don't mind sharing a face / clean body pic if requested.
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