BASICS: 53 yo man from Cleveland. 5’11”, 195. I’m looking for a younger submissive woman that wants and needs to be controlled and guided. I'm looking for long-term, live-in. Me.

ME: I’ve been in the lifestyle on and off for 15 years. I love the dynamic of D/s. I'm also fixed, so no kids or breeding. I’m an intellectual and geek. I love movies, language, literature, gaming, politics, animation, science and cooking. I don't smoke at all (smokers/vapers need not apply). I don't do drugs. Drink rarely.

MY KINKS: Age gap, dom/sub, rough sex and sex on demand, objectification, praise and degradation, obedience training, protocols, bondage (girls look fantastic in a collar and lead), spanking, slapping, control of dress, diet and behavior.

MY LIMITS: No scat, diapers, hard abuse, drugs, blood, or animals. Also, I do not share with men.

YOU: 18-40, cis-female, very submissive, good mind and a good sense of humor. Healthy and height-weight-proportionate (sorry, no BBWs). Non-smoker. Non-drug user. Want to be controlled in and out of the bedroom. Willing to serve and be trained as a sub. This is not for the timid, so if you're basically a vanilla girl going through a kink phase, I won't be right to you. Also, if you message me, include your age, height and weight. (I'm tired of fencing with people over the most basic information).

RELOCATION: I'm only looking for subs with potential to relocate to me if we get serious. Not everyone can relocate even if they wanted to, so please be realistic about your own situation.

SCAMMERS, FUCK OFF: I have NO interest in OnlyFans, Amazon Wishlists, sex workers, girls looking to be "spoiled" or that want "gas money" or anybody else trying to pick my pocket.

FINALLY: I greatly appreciate people with manners. It takes so little effort but is tragically rare these days. I never ghost people. I'll tell you directly if I'm interested or not. I don't waste anyone's time.