I'm looking for a submissive who isn't just sexually compatible with me, but who is also on a similar wavelength, in terms of personality and interests. Have you ever noticed how, if you look around, right now, you will almost assuredly see something you don't know the name of? An object, or a component, maybe the little flat metal thing to the side of a doorknob (it's called a strike plate, by the way, I just looked it up). Have you ever wondered why we put marshmallows in hot chocolate but don't generally float things in coffee or tea? These are just examples, you don't need to have had those specific thoughts. Well okay you probably just did, from reading them, but before that. But those are the kinds of thoughts I often have, weird musings about the world around us. Some people don't care, or never think about that stuff, themselves, and that's okay, but it's not what I'd want in a relationship. I want a partner I can share those thoughts with and have them truly understand where I'm coming from, and who, I would hope, would feel comfortable sharing their own weird thoughts with me. Someone I can share my nerdy interests with, who might enjoy picking up some assorted polyhedral dice and playing pretend in a fantasy world (or sci-fi, or cyberpunk, or really any genre; pen-and-paper roleplaying goes a lot deeper than just D&D). Hopefully that helps you get a bead on what I'm really looking for.

Some more specific stuff that I'd need would be: Be 25-35, submissive, single, childless (but not childfree, I definitely want kids), a non-smoker, and very far left, politically. I'm expecting to start out online, and eventually meeting in-person, relocating, etc., assuming things go well.

In the bedroom, for me, BDSM is about trust and intimacy, and it's also about creativity and intellectual engagement. I love getting into a partner's head, learning everything about them and their desires, and using it to drive them wild. I have a kink list, for easy reference. Some highlights include teasing, overstimulation, and breeding. I'm definitely more about praise and affection than I am about pain or degradation, and only engage in the latter on request (and even then, I prefer to keep it a "once in a while" thing). It's worth noting that I have a pretty active sex drive, so hopefully you have a healthy libido, as well.

And for some other things about me, I'm 6'3", Caucasian, older than I want to be, and I have over a decade of experience with BDSM. I'm not exactly a gym bunny, I imagine that much was obvious, but I enjoy swimming in the warmer months (which is most of them, where I live), so I think I'm doing alright.

I went with a more loose, candid approach this time, feel free to check my past request posts on my profile if you'd like a more professional tone. If you decide to message, to ensure you read everything (though I suppose you could have skipped to the end), please share with me something you enjoy that nobody else seems interested in (a hobby, a favorite movie/show/video game, etc.). In any case, thank you for reading, and have a lovely day.