I'm looking for something long term and meaningful with my partner/submissive, I want us to also be best friends as well as Dom/sub. I'd like to slowly get to know each other and slowly make you my property. I want to know what makes you tik!

I'm 44, living in the Canada, montreal. I'm 6'1 and around 280 lbs, not fit but not that fat either. I was going to the gym before the whole pandemic took over, and now I should really start again.

My background is IT, graphics and webdesign. I really enjoy DIY stuff, from building and fixing things to crafts. If you have any hobby like that I'll probably love to talk about it. I consider myself a serious person in the sense that I don't do things half-assed, but that doesn't mean I don't like having fun with my partner.

I really enjoy video games, although I only play them for fun and don't have much of a competitive side. To be honest, I actually don't do it that much anymore, at least not on my own, I'd love to find someone to play coop games with. I'd love to find something we can play together, and that's also one of the best ways to chat and get to know each other =) Although being on a voice call while doing our own thing (doesn't have to be video games) would be nice too!

I'm looking for a 23-50 female submissive. Ideally, you live in Canada as well, although I'm okay with online if we really are right for each other and the time difference is not too large. Connecting with the right person is much more important.

If you're actually reading my post, please include your age in your message (I've been getting a lot of replies from people waaay too young for me), and tell me which game you would enjoy playing to get to know each other. Yes this request is at the middle cause lots of people seem to only read the start or the end...

BDSM DETAILS:

• The long term goal would be a serious relationship.
• I like the idea of having complete ownership over my submissive. (again, knowing that this only happens after a long time and a lot of trust has been built). I want to make all the decisions for both of us while you only have to focus on being a good sub and pleasing your Master.
• Orgasm control and denial. Long term denial, with plenty of edging and stimulation in between of course. Just to clarify, long term means weeks or months (could be even more if you're really into it as well). I want to condition my sub to not be able to orgasm without permission.
• I want my slave to become somewhat dependent on me. I don't mean financially, I will always encourage you to be successful in your career and all of that (I do like a smart sub!), but I want my submissive to become slightly obsessed with me and having the idea of pleasing her Master always at the top, always thinking of me, even sharing whatever silly little thing just happened in your day that got you excited. I want to slowly get into your head until you can think of nothing else but me, until you become addicted to my control and until you will always go to your Owner first before doing anything. If you're a needy and clingy girl that's even better! I'm a very stable and consistent person, so I would be a good match. I want to become your safe place, the person that gives structure, consistency and purpose to your (our?) life, I'd be happy to be a broken slave's escape from reality.

Let me know if you're ready!