About Me: 44, 6', 200lbs, good-looking and an empty-nester. I have many vanilla hobbies in the summer; fishing, gardening, kayaking, tubing rivers, scoping out state parks and just plain living life to the fullest. In the winter I tend to hibernate; a great time to catch up on shows, reading and gaming while spending time with someone special. Apropos of nothing I'm a great cook. 420 friendly and it'd be dope if you were too...I enjoy a good cocktail but seldom get drunk unless there's a special event. Affectionate outside of the dynamic, within depends on our appetites...I can be your nurturer, your sadist or anything in-between.

Submission Worthiness: Y'all wield a lot of power in a singles marketplace, and as such if you're not asking yourself "Is this person worthy of my submission?", you could be setting yourself up for failure or shorter term relationships. Here's why I'm worth considering:

Honesty - I can share my backstory to highlight why I'm such a fanatic about direct, open honesty within relationships. Long story short I'll never lie or cheat, if you're ready to cheat the relationship should be severed (shouldn't even fall under consideration in a good one).

Versatility - As mentioned above, I can go from loving to punitive and back again with no problem....for me it's all about the control, in whatever form. I've got ample experience; have good vocal range to accentuate the mood and (I've been told) great male moans, if hearing Daddy does it for you.

Talent - I'm a very talented lover; give amazing head and know how to hold you on the edge until you're ready to burst. Regardless if we're in a place of nurture and praise or delivering your preferred punishments, I am underneath it all a Pleasure Dom. Getting you off gets me off.

Limits/Kinks: My only limits are poop, blood and sharing with other men. I love breathplay, anal, cnc, free use, slapping, orgasm torture, praise, degradation and much more. Aftercare is a non-issue as I dig affection.

About You: Neither age nor race matter. Attraction is an obvious necessity, but for me it comes in myriad forms. I do have an upper limit in the BBW-sphere, but it's subjective enough to be a case-by-case basis...homie doesn't mind some solid curves. Just be fun, chatty, and looking for something eventually monogamous and real, IRL as soon as we're comfortable enough to take the plunge. To prove you read all this, tell me your favorite musician or genre of music. I look forward to chatting.