It is about the experience, the thrill of control & the joy of connecting with another human being, it is a game of luck and here I am trying.
You will feel the pleasure, you will feel safe, you will feel relieved, and you will be wet consistently.
My vision of a dynamic is mostly centered on these next pillars;Hopefully, you adore intelligence and ambition. My life is centered on my goals, productivity, positivity and improving. I belive myself to be someone that loves thinking, being creative and diving deeper. My dynamics get that side of me as well, a dynamic "dynamic" is what I am looking for.
You will be teased, edged and sweet talked, you will beg, you will be praised, and eventually you will float with pleasure
I will always be looking for ways to keep things fresh, I will always be thinking on how to get you to hit the pleasure ceiling, I will always be adpating to the current circumstances, being able to shift a dynamic to satisfy your needs.Maturity, communication, honesty, forgiveness, listening and clarity. I hold these values high up. From past experiences, I cannot see a single dynamic going the distance or holding itself without these done properly.
I know that it is rare that you run into someone who actually enjoy BDSM with all its aspect rather than just chasing the sexual gratification. Someone that actually understand that on the other end, a human being exist, and someone that knows how to get that human to submit, how to conquer their mind and melt their will.
How to push the limits without crossing the boundaries, someone that is capable of leading naturally, can hold a conversation.
As a person, I am not that different, I am someone that loves art and love being surrounded by it, I love beautiful things, I am into music, I game most of the time, and I read a lot. I am good academically and put much time into developing myself, you would mostly find me doing projects or writing on topics I find intriguing. I love languages, and I love being engaged in discussions.
Look wise, I am white, around a 177 cm tall, black hair and eyes, Slim fit and wears glasses.Kink wise, it is all about control to some degree, I have yet to understand fully what attracts me to bdsm, but I am fully aware that I love that rush when I succeed at naturally getting someone to submit, at masterfully playing around praise and humiliation, when to push deeper, how to create that safe environment, and how to build up the connection and trust.
I would say that I have both the caring, supporting type and a little of the sadistic as well. As a list, denial, teasing, edging, power exchange, praise and humiliation. I am not into anything extremely extreme.Bdsm as a kink to me is a continuous dance, it is not just an act or a scene to reach sexal gratification, rather it is something that is hidden subtly in our interaction, the way we talk at times, the way I bend situations, the way I get you to submit naturally is not something that is sexual. It is in the way we interact on a daily basis
You can be whoever, as long as you have the time, substance and commitment to build something meaningful, come to me with who you are, and what you are looking for. Looking to hearing from you soon.
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