You want someone to take control, keep you in your place and have you serve him in the way he desires. That’s why you need to send me a chat request so we can talk.

Before we go any further, this post is for an in real life experience and possible LTR, not looking for an online relationship. So be in my general area or willing to ultimately relocate.

You have a burning desire to please, you want, need and understand you need some pain, humiliation and degradation in order to do that, the fact is your body and mind cry out for it. Besides having your owner in charge of your body, you need him to get deep inside your head so that all your desires and needs are met. And part of those needs and desires are pleasing your owner in all ways.

Being controlled and being owned is your ultimate fantasy, desire and need.

Who and what you are now isn’t important. Who and what I am going to mold and make you into is. And all it takes for that to happen is for you to contact me, have the desire for it to happen and an open mind. Physical characteristics are less important than the desire and need for it to happen, mind set and submissiveness. Age range is open, height, body type, race are too. Bodies and attitudes can both be changed for the better and I can do that.

Who am I? 59 yo white male Dom. Been in the life style for a long time. Currently looking for my next long term relationship and project. Well educated, well read, self employed business man. Hard wired to be the one in control, no matter what I am doing. In good health, have a dad bod, but robust in all ways. Very, very open minded, kinky, imaginative and caring in the right way with a sub. I understand the Dom/sub or D/s dynamic and can guide you through it.

I have a lots of everyday interests and activities I enjoy. Can carry on a conversation about many things and fit into any sort of crowd. My kinks and interests in the lifestyle are wide and varied. Bondage, impact play, control, control, control, CNC, free use, all sorts of BDSM activities form the mild to the wild, rough play, humiliation, degradation, ws, orgasm control, denial, chastity, oral worship, group play of all sorts from swinging, to sharing and swapping. Basically if it sounds like fun, I am all in.

We will talk about your limits. I will respect your limits. You will get all the proper care you need. I can mentor, help you meet whatever type of goals you may have. You will get discipline and rewards as the situation may call for.

So if you are a sub, looking for the ultimate in control, discipline and kink, we need to talk. This level of a relationship is not for everyone. For the right sub I will structure and negotiate the proper level, limits and control you need. Make it work for both of us, so we both get exactly what we need from this arrangement.

Ok, send that chat request and let’s start this journey. Come get what you really need, from a man who gets it and understands it.