About me: I'm 25, from Europe and my friends would describe me as a very loving, caring, smart and genuine person. My interests include Video Games, Art, Anime, reading, writing, languages, going to the gym, singing, science and many other things. I like to dress very girly with more feminine colors but also enjoy a more edgy/ emo style from time to time. When it comes to politics, I'm on the left spectrum of things.

My appearance: I'm 5'8 with long, dark brown, slightly curly hair - although I wear it straight most of the time. I have a more soft and curvy figure, which others would consider as being "thicc", I assume. I would consider myself conventionally attractive.

My preferences: I would lie if I said looks don't matter to me. They're not the only important thing, but they do matter to me since I like to present myself a certain way as well. What creates a deep bond at the end goes beyond just someones appearance though, of course.

I myself like a very athletic and muscular man. I like the contrast of me being so soft and my man being all muscles, and being bigger than me. I love to see muscles form around a mans body. I need someone who is strong enough to carry and throw me around and who can overpower me. My age preference would be from 28-32. If you think we're a good match and you're a bit outside that range, don't be scared to reach out anyways.

I have a big voice kink and really enjoy dirty talk in English (more specifically US American English). I love nothing more than a man who is vocal in bed and isn't afraid to show how much he's enjoying it.

What I'm looking for: I'm interested in a D/s dynamic and looking for a Daddy Dom. To be more specific, I'm looking for a Dom that is more interested in my pleasure than punishing me, although I enjoy that as well. So basically more of a pleasure Dom. I enjoy tasks and rules that would benefit us both. The intimacy of a D/s dynamic is very important to me. I also need a Dom who's understanding of my trauma and can provide a lot of reassurance and stability. I need a secure person and someone who is strict, firm and confident with his dominance but can also be vulnerable and has a connection to his emotions. I'm also interested in ownership and being collared.

But what I want for the future is what goes beyond just a D/s dynamic. I'm at the same time looking for a long term relationship and the person I'll end up marrying.

Why is a D/s relationship so appealing to me?: The thought of being chosen and owned is fulfulling to me and I find joy in submitting to someone I care for deeply and trust. I have ADHD and the dynamic provides a great structure for my life and is supporting me in a lot of ways. And of course, I enjoy all the other fun stuff that comes with it.

Kinks: I would consider myself a masochist. I'm also into ddlg, but I wouldn't consider myself a little. I just like certain aspects of that dynamic. Outside of that I also enjoy the 'classic' things almost anyone does like degrading, praising, chocking etc. I find it hard to go into detail with this, it feels more natural when talking about it in a conversation.

Long distance?: Although I would prefer someone local, I'm open to a long distance relationship. But only if the other person is aware of the struggles of long distance and isn't afraid to make a commitment like that. It's difficult to find a partner that checks all or most boxes so I want to be open to that.

Relationship - Family: Although I'm more progressive, I like the traditional family roles and I would like to be a stay at home home mom in the future. The reason for that is that my mental issues make it difficult to work full time and I would love to focus on family and the small business I'm running.

If I caught your interest just send me a message where you introduce yourself a little, bonus points if you include a (sfw or at most gym) pic! Please don't message me if you don't want a serious connection and see none of this working. Also include the word "donut" so I know you read my whole post :)