I am seeking a submissive male or masculine-of-center partner. I am a masc-centered nonbinary person (he/him) with femme presentation. I do not date straight men or lesbians, as I am not a woman. I have extensive experience with long distance D/s and have been practicing power exchange in my intimate relationships for several years. Happy to start long distance but hoping for an in person arrangement within 5 years or so.

I am looking for someone interested in being absolutely owned in a 24/7 Owner/property dynamic based on total blanket consent. While I am kinky, this primarily manifests as underlying control in the mundane everyday life. The day-to-day I imagine is not so extraordinary or unusual, only the balance of decision making power. Much like vanilla dating, I look for my dynamics to be founded on friendship, companionship, and sexual chemistry. Please DO NOT message me if your idea of TPE is a pornographic fantasy of cleaning with a buttplug feather duster under the threat of a whip, being locked in a tiny box all day and only let out to be beaten and starved, or having super intense kinky sex everyday before and after work.

I want a meaningful relationship with my property that mostly involves cuddling on the couch, having coffee ready for me in the morning, going on brunch dates, and being able to tell my partner to do the dishes. I include CNC/free-use as part of the dynamic I'm looking for, but kink and constant sex is far from my focus and I will stop answering if you just want to talk about a sexual fantasy land.

For me, building a dynamic means meeting my partner where they are comfortable and progressing towards effective no-limits and absolute authority. Starting small, but expanding to have authority over any decision, regardless of its topic or magnitude; anything from free use to life/career changes, living arrangements, diet, substance use, etc. Depending on your language preference, this may be most simplified as a ""traditional"" relationship where I am the head of household.

I am non-monogamous and currently have two partners. I am not interested in short term D/s.

About me: - I'm a Little Demon Princess, seeking a devoted servant, knight in shining armor, and concubine. - I don't have an off switch and neither do my dynamics. I am what I am at all times. Looking for someone who is also always "on." - I'm non-monogamous. I am possessive and enjoy having someone all to myself, but poly and other non-mono folks are welcome. I would like to cohabitate with multiple partners eventually, and a triad is also a possibility with one of my current partners. - I have a growth mindset--I am a lifelong student and intend to continue developing in as many aspects of life as I can for as long as I can. I desire the same from my partners. - I do not judge or shame for kinks or other interests; special interests and rants about your favorite things are welcome. I'm a nerd and I love other nerds who will listen to me babble about things. - I am career oriented, well educated, and passionate about what I do. On downtime, I do my nails and hair, bake, craft, and write. - I am flexible, compassionate, intersection focused, and always okay with meeting someone where they're at so long as we progress towards a mutual goal.

You should be: - Caring and attentive, seeking someone to serve and spoil, who will care for and cherish you in return. - A follower, enjoy the opportunity to make service oriented decisions. At least moderately confident that you want a total power exchange dynamic where you surrender all autonomy over all aspects of your life. - Willing to commit when there's high compatibility, unafraid of long term planning. You must be open to relocating to me. (Western USA) - Seeking a space that is wholly vulnerable on all sides, genuine connection with another person, and not interested in a pornographic domination fantasy--looking for something real that is grounded in practicality - Either willing to endure or need/desire pain as a form of stimulation, and want these things to extend outside of the bedroom, including emotional and lifestyle S&M. You should be okay with (or enjoy) mixing pain and sex most or all of the time. - Needy and enjoys reciprocal attention, looking for mutual intimacy, friendship, and companionship--want to spend lots of time together--mutual activities, doing nothing, doing different things together, going on mundane adventures, having sex, etc.

Tl;dr: I am seeking a lifelong partner, companion, and property who desires to be owned in their absolute entirety with nothing off limits to live a simply beautiful life of coffee dates and movie nights with lots of cuddles.

I hope what I describe resonates with you. If it does, send me a message and describe what you hope a random, average day might look like! I'd love to talk to you :)