I've posted here before - quite a few times, in fact. And in other places, too.
I've called myself a sadist. A Daddy - and more than a Daddy. I've tampered with the idea of being a switch, a Dom, and even just a kinkster.
I've realized, more than anything else, what I'm after is someone that wants me to push them. Someone that wants to be more than what they currently are: someone that has seen a label, and wants to see how far they can take it.
Make no mistake. I'm still a sadist. I still love assplay and facefucking and choking out a woman half my size with twice my enthusiasm - and I definitely still love being called Daddy - but there's a fundamental dynamic underneath that which I'm craving.
Trust. Complete and total trust. The ability to have a conversation, tell some dumb jokes, geek out above Baldur's Gate 3 or Dimension 20's latest release and then shift over to rough, brutal CNC that brings you to the very edge of despair - or just a gentle, slow cuddle fuck in a pile of pillows.
That doesn't happen without trust. Without the full scope and range of open communication and a willingness to be vulnerable with each other.
So. That's what I'm after. Someone to trust, and someone that wants to trust me in turn.
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