The title says it clearly... I am 24 years old M, I am a switch, as you may guess I am Dom leaning (if you check in my profile there is a post where I introduce myself as a Dominant), but now I am looking to give up some control and listen a shy submissive side that may struggle to express fully.
About me (in brief)
- I am 24 yo and I am from Italy
- In my daily life I am a master student
- I have some hobbies and interests but I hate to listen them, especially there
- I am nearly 1.80m tall, neither slim neither chubby body type (I keep myself in decent shape, but definitely not a sporty person), dark blonde/brown hair, blue eyes. I usually like to present myself well dressed and clean
- I could be described as a slightly stubborn introvert. If you know what it means, I am an INTJ (without taking it too seriously)
About me (kinkly)
Kinkly, I am a switch, mainly Dominant. I had some experience (mostly online) into domming, but I have a sub side that sometimes come out and begs for attention. Since it definitely got less space that my Dom side, now I would like to try to explore it a bit more.
My main kinks as a sub are: orgasm control, edging, tease and denial, spanking, hit play in general, some pain in general (if put in the right mood I can become a little masochist slut and beg for it), sensation play in general (I like creative ways to tease the body), ass play, bondage, discipline and guidance, tasks and orders, worshipping, doing my best to be a good boy.
I guess I like more a gentle attitude, but this doesn't mean I don't appreciate also a stricter and/or more detached approach. I am pretty open to ear from you what kind of dynamics do you like and why.
Some additional stuff I want to mention but it's more delicate is: chastity (I like the idea of an extended orgasm control, I don't have a cage), pegging (love the idea too, but sig... my ass isn't used to that much action), rules and control (this point needs to be discussed), a bit of humiliation and degradation (i may like it, but needs to be explored in the right way)
Limits: extreme pain, blood, permanent, any body liquid (except spit and cum, that instead could be added to the kinks), strong degradation and humiliation, extreme pet play, age regression, findom, privacy, blackmail, interfering with private life, sending immediately NSFW and/or face pictures (both are things that require a level of trust, especially the second one, which actually may even never come), text only (I would like we could proof each other we exist for real).
What I am looking for (and what could I offer)
To keep things simple, I am looking for a Dominant or switch woman which wants to to explore with me my submissive side for a while. Since as a sub I am a beginner, I would like someone that likes to give some guidance, or which is willing to explore things together.
About your age: be 18 or over, better if over 20. About location: I guess this will be online, so any location is okay. Of course, the closer the time zone the better.
Expecially at the beginning, I would like to keep it casual and I am not looking for a long term relationship (expecially online), but I still appreciate if we build a connection. As you may read in my Dom post, I value open dialogue and conversations. It would be cool if we reach to develop some kind of friendship.
What I offer is an enthusiastic playmate, willing to learn, have fun but also talk and have a laugh.
As I mentioned in the title and in the intro, sometimes i struggle a bit with my sub side and I may be a bit reluctant on giving up power. I am pretty new in exploring for real my sub side, expecially if for extended time periods. Sometimes I could switch a bit attitude, but actually I like to try to control that, and I guess that if taken in the proper way, it could be fun for both of us.
If you guess we could click, I wait for a your Dm here on Reddit (I may not answer immediately because of time zones or. I appreciate a brief introduction (if not already present in profile). See you soon!
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