It doesn't matter if you’re a brat, sub, or little, I want to explore a relationship with you because of how we connect. Kink is second. Necessary, but second. I hope you feel the same.

To say I am a disappointed idealist is to describe my outlook lightly. I feel my faith has been ground into dust by the millstone of life. People who take more than a glance at me would describe me as a realist and a pragmatist. I try to encourage this belief, but they are all wrong. I think I secretly am still the idealist I always was. I'm just better at hiding it now.

I am a bit of an academic. I love to research topics in politics, mythology, and philosophy. I can tell you about the clever plays the speaker of the House made, discuss how we can apply Beowulf to ourselves despite his larger-than-life nature, or debate if the good is in the clouds or on the earth.

My interests are a bit paradoxical. I am in a top guild in an MMO, but I've climbed one of the largest volcanoes in the continental US. I'm creating my own tabletop rpg, I have a YouTube channel I'm trying to grow, and I enjoy improving myself in the gym.

If our interests perfectly align I'd be ecstatic, but what matters to me is that you are committed to our relationship. I want to feel safe with you and feel I can open up to you despite being terrified of being hurt. I want our relationship to be sanctuary. I find these deep relationships in kink.

On BSM: My dominance style is a little different with each submissive I’ve had. I am caring and passionate, but I want to own my partner. My fantasies have her as a submissive housewife who's my intellectual rival. But whether she is a career woman or stays at home, I want to own her. I want her to yearn to obey me. If this sounds like you, we can talk about the level of intensity we need.

I have a lot of kinks including impact play, ownership, bondage, and many others. I also deeply enjoy cnc and free use. These help me feel I own my partner and we aren't just roleplaying. I don't think any of my kinks are deal-breakers.

Because physical attraction is important to me, I'm including a few photos. I’d feel like a hypocrite if I didn’t show myself up front. If you include a photo, you will be prioritized. But let's be real, I’m a male looking for a woman on the internet. There is no queue.

I hope to see your orange message in my mailbox soon!

Please be 18-40 years old. My limits are scat, gore, and permanent harm.