You're ready.
Maybe you've known submission was an intrinsic part of yourself your whole life, or maybe you've realized it only in your adulthood. Maybe your idea of the life you want to live is clearly detailed, or maybe it's more nebulous than you wish it were, or maybe you recognize what you need and want to discover the rest with your eventual partner. Maybe you've only recently come to see yourself as a work in progress, trying hard to become a woman who can offer her dominant her best self, or maybe you're so familiar with self-improvement that you relish each new goal.
Whatever your situation, you're ready.
For love.
Because you know that's what this is all about for you and him: love. Better than any fantasy, what you envision is realistic and sustainable and honest because it's based on the intimate, intricate, profound connection between your heart and his. Everything you do and say and feel and think is about your love for him, supercharging you with feeling whether you're at his side or at his feet.
This is a statement, not of urgency, but of priority. You want love to be the guiding principle that defines your dynamic. In all things, in every part of your relationship, you need love to come first.
You want to talk with him, to hear his ideas and feel so full when he listens to yours. You know he's the one who makes the decisions, and he values your input because you offer it out of love. You want to help him be his best because doing so makes you your best. And when you speak, you know he hears every syllable secretly shouting your feelings for him. He always listens.
You want to keep him in your mind. When you talk to coworkers, friends, family, you imagine him watching and try to behave in ways that would please him. He has a strong sense of integrity, so you comport yourself ethically and with positivity. You imagine little ways you can be of service to him, together and not, and the words and acts you give to him chase his own generosity. That pursuit is easy because he's never our of your sightline, never far from your thoughts, never absent from your heart.
You want to learn from him. He's the kind of man who's put so much into himself that you can only admire him, try to emulate him, try to honor him. You know he sees you for who you are, so you work to ensure that means he sees a woman who never stops trying. He's there at the end of it to praise your efforts, celebrating your successes and showing you no hurdles are insuperable, and you remember why you work so hard in the first place.
You want to touch him and for him to touch you in the ways that make him feel good. He's as passionate when he's rough as when he's gentle, and you take both as kindness because you know that's how he means it. You love his affection's intensity, its ferocity, its subtlety, its pervasiveness. The acts themselves are less important than their meaning, and you're as eager to accept each new expression of love as you are to reciprocate it.
This isn't about impatience, but excitement. You know that any relationship that begins this way will take time to develop (especially due to any initial challenge of geography), and you aren't the kind of woman who rushes when she should take her time. You know he feels the same. But call it devotion or commitment or adoration or ardency, you know there's a future in store for you, built on mutual trust and sustained by mutual resolve and ensured by mutual hope and brimming, bursting with mutual love. You can't wait.
You're ready now.
Tl;dr: Insightful man seeks smart, self-aware woman for realistic life-long TPE relationship. Please inquire via PM for so, so many more details.
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