Hey! Quick heads up: this is gonna be a bit of a long and personal message, but I think you're worth it

TL;DR: I'm an enthusiastic but inexperienced Dom seeking a submissive partner who shares my passion for life. I'm looking for someone eager to surrender and be challenged by a trusted partner, contributing to a fulfilling and ethically kinky relationship.

About me AKA "Who is this man?"

Physically - I'm 23, single, white, dark brown hair/eyes, active/athletic (170cm || 5'8 / 63kg ||~140 lbs), non-smoker. Happy to verify each other with photos early on.

I embody a dynamic fusion of passion, support, and calmness. People have characterized me as communicative, honest, mature, sadistic, curious, approachable, patient, open-minded, and supportive, among other qualities. My personality is multifaceted, revealing both warmth and understanding, creating a space where conversations flow effortlessly.

Interests - I embody a unique blend of both the laid-back homebody and the enthusiastic socialite. My interests span a wide spectrum, encompassing the love for coffee (perhaps a bit cliché, but undeniably genuine), the artistry of cocktails, the thrill of lively parties and raves, a genuine appreciation for football (the real version, of course), a diverse taste in music that spans across numerous genres, an unwavering passion for anime and manga (among my greatest passions), an admiration for tattoos, adeptness in photo editing, and a genuine enthusiasm for video games and e-sports. Hopefully we share a few interests already.

Daily Life - I'm ambitious and my career is a big part of who I am. Running my own cafe/bar brings independence, and living on my own with financial stability adds to that. Recently, I realized that a D/s dynamic is important in my romantic relationships, not just in the bedroom.

In love, I prioritize time for my partner and expect the same in return. Communication is a big deal for me; it's the foundation of a healthy relationship, helping us understand each other and grow together.

Who I'm Looking For

Let's be a kinky power couple! The world of submission and Dominance/submission (D/s) doesn't mean giving up control in life; it's about finding harmony. I'm on the lookout for someone who sees herself as passionate, driven, and ambitious, however she defines it. Yet, I'm also seeking a partner who dreams of trusting someone else with control.

I want someone ready to be with a trusted companion, prepared to face challenges and achieve dreams through the care, safety, structure, pleasure, and discipline of a complete D/s dynamic. The goal is to help each other become the best versions of ourselves. Ready to embark on this journey together?

The partner I envision shares the qualities I value: a love for exploration, learning, and trying new things; an active commitment to physical and mental well-being; the presence of personal goals; effective communication; empathy; generosity; loyalty; honesty; a penchant for kinkiness; emotional availability; and a genuine pursuit of a Dom partner, without seeking a "sugar daddy".

I'm genuinely open to every s-type identity (sub, little, middle, pet, brat, etc.).

My only deal breakers in a partner are: nicotine/cigarette smoker

Location - Europe; Germany;

For the time being, I prefer to maintain our relationship online as we get to know each other and build a meaningful connection.

Do you already recognize yourself and think we could be compatible? Don't hesitate to DM me!

I know it can be intimidating to message so please know you are always appreciated. <3

The kinky stuff

Experience - I'm stepping into something entirely new here. Over the past few months, I've dedicated time to researching and immersing myself in this lifestyle, and the more I learn, the more fascinated I become. I'm prepared to put in the work to evolve within the D/s relationship. I understand that things might not be perfect in the beginning, but if you're open to looking past my initial inexperience, I promise you'll encounter something truly unique and special.

My kinks - include bondage/shibari, orgasm control/edging, training, some humiliation, impact play, I am open and eager to learn and explore new things.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.