Hello all! 👋 Thank you for taking the time out of your day to stop by my post. I hope everyone is having a good morning 🌄💛😊
I would like to start off by simply apologizing because this will be a long post. I don't blame you if you get half way through and step away, because this will definitely be an infodump. I'm hoping by being as least vague as possible, I'll actually connect with someone like minded and not waste anyone's time (or my own). Please bare with me because I'm sure this will be all over the place.
Firstly to avoid connecting with people that I'm sure I won't be compatible with, here is a short list of things I feel I need to highlight.
-I'm a smoker and don't plan on quitting.
-I am agnostic.
-I am LGBTG friendly.
-I am left on the political scale.
-I do not think I want children.
-I am a chubby girl, but this is something I am working on.
-I do not want a partner who also wears diapers, even if they don't use. (I'm sorry, just like to view my caregiver in a certain light and then also wearing doesn't fit my headspace. Nothing wrong with daddies or mommies who wear, it's just not for me.)
-I am strictly submissive. I do not switch.
-I will not sext or send nudes anytime soon.
-I am monogamous.
-I am a bit of a vagabond and haven't settled down anywhere. I've had a pretty hectic life and unfortunately haven't had a "home" in quite some time.
-I am a night owl and typically work 3rd shift.
If none of that scared you off, then I hope I don't with the rest of my post. 😂
I'll start here with a little about who I am! I'm a sensitive and sweet, kind person who likes to learn, play, explore, help, and love 😊
I stand around 5'5 and as I said before, I am a bit chubby. I have curly brown hair, hazel eyes, a few tattoos and I'd describe my style as generally alt/goth. I don't think I'm very pretty but have been told otherwise 🥲🥹
I have a bazillion hobbies and interests, mostly on the nerdy side when I am able to indulge. Video games, tv, anime, cooking, and much more. We can get more into that in conversation so we have plenty of things to talk about 😊
When it comes to the little side of me, I am a little on the bratty side and hoping to find someone who enjoys that and can put me in my place. I can't really place my little age since it's all over the place, but a lot of times I feel like more of a toddler than anything. I enjoy cuddles, baths, playtime, cartoons, stuffies, bottles and sippies, cute and pretty clothes and playing dress up, coloring, etc etc. I am a little who enjoys having rules and structure and discipline, so having a caregiver who is on the stricter side is important to me. I am also a very clingy and needy little who can get fussy when I want attention. I also do use little talk when I'm in the right headspace and if I'm feeling smol enough may be nonverbal at times.
While I would like to be treated like an actual baby most of the time, I am also a service sub and love to cook and clean and organize. I'm not the best at making money or managing finances, but I try to help where I can. Ideally I would love to be someone's house baby girl who lives to serve and make my daddy or mommy happy.
I also am very into the idea of TPE and 24/7 dynamics, I just know it would take a lot of trust and time to get to something like that.
I would also like to touch base on the fact that I consider myself a very possessive and jealous person. I do not share. I am an eyes for you and only you type of person, and I expect you to come with the same energy. We will establish boundaries of what we consider disrespectful to the relationship very early on and I expect that to be followed to a T. I never ask for anything I'm not willing to abide by myself. I am riddled with past relationship trauma and I need someone to patient with me. I am someone who loves and cares for people very deeply, and for once I'd like to find someone to reciprocate that. I find happiness in making someone else happy, and I intend on making the person im with my main purpose. If you aren't an honest, loyal, and devoted lover, please please don't waste my time here. I am taking this very serious and I need you to do so as well.
Now for what I'm looking for in a partner, I've pretty much been over already but I will reiterate. I am looking for someone kind, compassionate, thoughtful, patient, loyal, trustworthy, nurturing, with a good sense of humor I can play around and goof with. I don't want someone super serious 24/7, even though I prefer someone strict I still want to have fun with you. Im okay with homebodies as i am one myself, but i do also like to go out. Especially to explore nature and learn and experience new things.
I like a mix of soft and hard Dom, and need someone with a sadistic streak who's open minded and hopefully into dark and taboo kinks like I am. I am a sexual and non sexual little as well. Mostly sexual when it comes to forced age regression. But don't make that the main focus of things, especially when getting to know each other.
I do like the idea of getting to a point where I trust someone enough to take away my big girl rights and privileges and only give them as rewards or when needed. I would be okay with unpotty training, but this would take a lot of work to get to. So again, patience is needed here with me.
I like to be treated like a princess and a punching bag. If this phrasing puts you off, then we probably aren't compatible. I've been told what I want is basically abusive and while I disagree, I'm sure others don't.
Sorry that kind of got rambly. So anyway, when it comes to physical preferences I don't really have any other than you being taller than me. Attraction is important though, so I'd like to get picture exchanging out of the way.
I'm only looking to talk to someone between 25-36ish. Not too much younger or older than I am.
I guess that's probably enough for now, and again I'm sorry for such a long post. If you have managed to make it this far, please feel free to reach out! But also, I have a short list of things I expect in your first response. That being a physical description of you along with a picture, your general location, and what your favorite candy/dessert is. I do not feel this is an unreasonable request but the last time I posted I got a lot of messages and I'm hoping this will help me weed out who would be the best match for me 💛 If you've reached out before and I didn't respond, feel free to do so again. I deleted all my message requests shortly after I posted last time because I thought I found a good fit, but things unfortunately ended up not the case. Which is fine. One door closes another door opens, right? 🥺
Thanks again for reading, I look forward to hearing from one of you lovely people who made it through my train wreck of a post 😂 😊
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