Hello future Misstress, Miss, Ma'am, sir, master etc.
34 m 174.5cm 18cm athletic. No gut. Handsome face nice hair brown and brown eyes. I'm a mix of French and Argentian/Italian. Originally from the US. But my childhood was in south America.
I am a switch. I assume this can a problem for many. "He could top from the bottom". Personally I find that idea boring. What would be the point. I do have some experience though. Not my favorite but it was still fun. My ex from years ago pegged me. Multiple times. Never came so hard. The problem though, was that I did have to top from the bottom. I don't blame her, she wasn't dominant. She was open and I'll always appreciate her. But it's given me an unscratable itch. In those moments, I wanted to be her bitch. I didn't care if she hurt me. I wanted to be hers however she wanted. I've never been able to give someone that. But it aches. There's a part of yourself behind a glass, window shopping, I know it's for me but I haven't been able to afford it. Because it is not an item you can buy alone. I'm also patient and enjoy joy life (more the theory of it), so I know my day will come. That being said why not experience it online before I find it irl. I'm from the US but live in Argentina. I'm going to munches, or as they call them here, alters. I've been in the community for a bit. I'm no pro, but I'm accostumbed. I also have dyslexia and my auto correct doesn't know what I was trying to type when I typed it, accustomed. Wait, that one looks right...
I'm a good conversationalist. Though my charm doesn't come off so well in text. Would love to have a phone call if we vibe. See if we vibe more.
I'm open to a lot of kinks. I like pain, I like giving pleasure, and I love to adore beauty.
I'd like receiving what I give. Pain, humiliation, degradation, praise, love, respect, disrespect, and making them feel like a slut.
And I want to give what I expect. Obidience, praise, thinking of what they may want and giving it, open to punishment at all times, liking the idea of never being perfect but always trying to be, completing tasks, not thinking everything will be sexual, my pleasure being your pleasure, my pleasure being your pleasure, my pleasure being your pleasure. That this is not about getting off, it is about serving. That there is no greater pleasure than doing just that.
Of course I have limits. Only newbies say they have none. And those that truely have none... Well they have crossed into an entirely different plane of existence.
I'm a kind person and no one would expect me to be dominant. But we all can change behind closed doors. You'll find me sweet and caring. Love girls nights. Doing facials, wine, cheese boards, and answering questions that can narrow down true love. That was last weekend. Nice prompt Jess. But it isn't that I'm not masculine. It's that I'm comfortable in who I am and what I want.
If you want a shy pushover, I'm not your person. I'm also not an alpha by day, slut at night. I am unassuming. And I think with enough time anyone would learn to like me. But i also don't care if someone doesn't.
If you want a confident semi hairy in touch with his feminine (always a learning and growing process) man. Perfect. But I'm not perfect. I lack direction. And you thrive on direction, yes?
I hope I can give you what you need. 🙇
Excited to hear from you... etc
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