📌Please note that I am not interested in men; only transwomen, ciswomen or other nonbinary femmes! Only excpetion is if the man is a third to spice up an established kink dynamic. 🌷✨

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About Me ::

My name is Meadow! 🦋 My pronouns are he/fae! I live in Portland, OR within a queer eco-village. 🍃 I am 31, (born 2/14💘), 5' 3" (160cm), petite, thiccfit (pear shaped), born intersex (*hermaphrodite is the scientific term for clarity but is derogatory to be told that. I just want to be clear on who I am & be respected for it as I have faced being treated different in the past due to my anatomy.) ⚧️

🎀I am a nonbinary, femme, trans boi who has identified as such since I was young but am still early in my transition when it comes to my gender expression. Despite what I wear now, I want to actually dress like a fairy doll; entirely in light pink earth tones, ruffles, garters with thigh highs, etc. I take low dose hrt, actively trying to get top surgery, a partial metoidioplasty and a hysterectomy done!

I am Sapphic, Apresromantic & Polyamorous🪻 (I don't identify as lesbian just because I am attracted to men sexually & romantically, just on a lower scale) I am ✨️very✨️ submissive (bottom preference but can top/power bottom; I am just not a switch or dominant). Due to my ethnicity I have been forced into plenty of awkward situations where dynamics are established and then the other code switches in the moment, expecting me to play a dominant role and talk about having a "BBC", even when I don't. I am not going to be that kind of fantasy for anyone & forcing race play on me is a hardline. 🚫

🌷✨️I am a soft boi who enjoys the simple things in life. I live in a very cozy tiny house that feels like a fairy cottage that overlooks a large garden. I love to bake, especially pies! I enjoy bugs, plushies, cuddling my cat, cycling, being outdoors in general, camping, hotsprings, eating good food, traveling to new places, reading books, playing games to name a few of my interests! I am compared to a Red Panda by friends! Lol 💞 You won't guess what my favorite animal is but a hint is it's from the sea! Please let me know what your guess is so I know you've read this ad! 🥰

🍫I'm autistic, have c-ptsd, ocd (I love to clean 🧼) and am hard of hearing! A majority of the time I'm regressed & I don't know if it is age regression exactly but it is me loosing a bit of my ability to process thoughts beyond what is happening in the moment. But it also means that something as simple as a cup of hot cocoa on a cold day sends a huge rush of endorphins to my brain in such a way like it was my first time and I light up about it! Physical touch, like hugs, makes me shiver like a moth! 💓 Anything that is not structured/scheduled or simplified, can cause overstimulation, as all my senses are just more heightened then the average person. However, that has made some of my past sexual experiences quite fun if my partner gets to know how my body functions differently than others. 🥺 Loud sounds, yelling, static on TV are bad triggers! I do not need a caretaker but being honest about how I function is important.

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Seeking ::

For clarity on what I'm looking for is a friends with benefits and kink dynamic. 🌸⛓️🌸

I believe I am a bit extreme in what it is I'm looking for, ontop of needing time to also really explore myself. So understand why it's taken this long to find it but at least now I'm confident in knowing who I am and what I want now! I'm really just looking for someone I feel like I really vibe with and makes me feel safe and sexy. But I'm open to couples as well! 👉🏽👈🏽

So I'll simplify into bulletpoints.

❣️ Must be age between (25 - 40) (Depending on maturity level there is some wiggle room here but I'm cautious & absolutely no one younger than 21)

❣️ Is a FemDom or MommyDom type! (I am open to couples)

❣️ Experienced in BDSM

❣️ Local preferred or Long-Distance is fine!

❣️ Accepting of my nonbinary boi identity!

❣️ Accepting of me being Poly despite being single right now....

❣️ Respects and uses my pronouns!

❣️ Dominant (can be a Switch but comfortable with being only dominant with me)

❣️ Wanting to establish potential longterm ownership of me, serious collaring, daily chastity and buttplug wearing. The femboi dream 🎀

❣️ Enjoys pet play and even better if you're a furry!

❣️ Be satisfied by me daily if possible with my oral fixation & my need to be used/bred for your pleasure, even if by others if you wish it. I am also big on being a service sub, besides just sexual; I enjoy cleaning, tidying up, standard household maid tasks.

❣️ Is comfortable helping me stay on track with my body goals and eventually directs how I dress every day. I have the ✨️thembo fairy✨️ fantasy!

❣️ Is comfortable actually establishing a friendship if there is chemistry between us and has a potential to be more, romantically.

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If you think we might be a good fit. Please comment/dm here or add me on discord letting me know you saw my ad on here! 🫣

Pics will be sent privately and I expect the same in return. Eventually I'd like a mutual video recording sent so we both know we're legit and not catfishing! 😭

🌸✨️@ meadeaux