Before you ask, yes that was a Jojo reference.

ABOUT ME

Physically- I'm a 35 year old white man. I'm 5'8", relatively active. I'm a pretty average build, not thin/not fat, a little muscular, I won't say dad bod but like, I dunno? Someone called it “squishy muscular” and I like that. Slightly olive skin, dark hair, deep brown eyes, glasses-wearer. fully vaccinated & boosted. Happy to share pics if we start talking!

About me- I'm a very introverted, neurodivergent, ADHD-having homebody who goes through various stages of hyperfixations. I'm bookish, quiet, & slightly aloof, though I tend to open up very much once I get to know someone and feel more comfortable around them. I’ve begun to identify as demisexual which honestly makes a lot of sense sifting through those feelings over the years . I love reading books, playing videogames, watching bad movies (and occasionally good ones), and my cat. I do enjoy the outdoors despite my homebodyness, usually going to coffee shops or trying new restaurants, or taking (very amateur) photography, and just exploring my city.

I’m very very left-leaning. Politics and world issues mean a lot to me, and I very strongly prefer others that share similar views as me. I’m immediately suspicious of anyone who says they’re moderate or “just not into politics”. I constantly go through crises or identity, worrying if I’m actively contributing to the capitalist decay of society by having a career in finance, wondering if I’m one of the bad guys. ACAB includes the Paw Patrol dogs.

In short, I’m a colorful, introspective, inquisitive mess!

The Kinky Stuff- Kinky me is a bit of a hodgepodge. I lean towards soft domination ; a gentle, affectionate pleasure dom that loves to create a warm & caring environment so my partner can truly let out her inner slut. But I also have a little bit of a sadism streak and don’t mind being a little rough from time to time as well. But at my heart I love to let the raw, hedonistic emotions take over, turn off my brain and just focus on maximizing my partners pleasure & mine. Let me call you my good girl, whisper sweet nothings in your ear, write words of affirmation all over your body, & and make you mine.

My most enjoyable kinks are as such:

-primal play

-sensation play

-impact play (a lot of plays)

-orgasm control/denial

-positive bodywriting

-free use

I'm located in Baltimore city itself, and am looking for something local! So preferably nearby or at least within driving distance.

If you felt any of this resonate with you, send me a message! I hope to hear from you!