Good evening!

So, once again my search continues… I often think I should just give up with my search, but I am confident that the right Dom for me is out there, and I think (hope?) it’s perfectly okay to be picky.

Super quickly - I have no interest in online dynamics, daddies/DDLG or married men. Please don't waste your time :)

I am 25 years old, fully single and I am looking to start my first D/s dynamic. I have dabbled a little bit here and there with kink ( fairly vanilla still) with an older man I used to see, but he wasn’t a Dom and we weren’t able to peruse a dynamic. For as long as I can remember, probably when I first discovered masturbation I was drawn to kink… the idea being a submissive is something I crave, and need in my life. I get very little enjoyment out of purely vanilla relationships.

So, I am looking for an EXPERIENCED, genuine, FULLY SINGLE, older Dominant to help guide and train me on my submissive journey. A Dom who is respectful, but strict when necessary, not afraid to take the lead, and preferably has a sadistic streak. I like guys who are strong both physically and mentally, and who take good care of themselves.

It’s worth mentioning that I am autistic (high functioning). This does NOT hold me back in life - I work, drive (learning to), have my own home, and lead a fairly normal life. I tend to mask pretty well. I do however, get some anxiety around meeting to and talking to new people, so may be a little shy at first. It takes me awhile to warm to people. Maybe it is my autism that draws me to kink… the need for rules, routine and structure… 🤔.

Physically - I am 5’3, white, curvy, have long auburn hair, hazel eyes and often wear glasses… and have small boobs! I guess I am a bit of a plain Jane. If I had a preference I’d say I like guys who are tall, strong and have a full head of hair (and full set of teeth) 😁

Vanilla me - I love travelling, spending time with friend/family, swimming, long country walks, cooking/baking, and listening to music… anything old! November Rain is my favourite song.

Kinks that I’d love to explore:

~ restraints ~ gags ~ breath play ~ orgasm control/denial ~ humiliation ~ CNC ~ rough sex ~ nipple torture ~ impact play ~ name calling ~ face slapping ~ pain ~ rules/structure ~ open to TPE further down the line.

What I am NOT looking for:

. Younger partners . Married men . Online dynamics/play (this is non negotiable) . A Daddy . Any form of DDLG/Age Play . Fellow autistics (sorry! But I’ve been there, and it just doesn’t work for me personally 🙂) . Walking red flags/creeps.

I will NOT be sharing any photos of myself before I feel ready to, PLEASE respect this. I will ignore just a ‘hey’ or anything that is blatantly a copy paste message. Be original, show me you actually bothered to read the post. I don't do snapchat. (hard limit).

Finally, despite living alone, I would not feel comfortable ever hosting at mine, maybe it's due to the autism, but I rarely even let friends or family over to my house, it's my 'safe space'.

I’ll end it here. If I haven’t put you off, then please feel free to message me!

~ M