I know, I know. That's somewhat vague. Let's start with a quick FAQ section.

What do I mean by struggling?

I think it's safe to say that we're all struggling with a few things in life. Fucked up sleep schedule, lack of exercise, low water intake, procrastination, or even self harm. Things that affect out health, our studies or work, our personal life, our relationships. Our present and future. That's a unique combination for everyone. Some people can deal with it on their own, some need help. Do you?

Does that mean it's a purely non-sexual ad?

Not at all. A part of that struggle can be accepting your own desires and finding someone to explore them with. Besides, why would we give up on all the kinky fun we can have while improving you day by day?

How exactly would this work?

We can discuss the details in private, nothing is carved in stone. We'd talk about the issues you're dealing with at the beginning, pick the most important ones, and set up a system that works for both of us. We'd work on 2-3 things at the beginning to avoid overwhelming you, and revisit our goals regularly.

Why should you pick me?

I enjoy this. That means I won't stop caring after a week or two when you decided to be my sub. I've done this successfully with others, and I'm ready to do it again with you. I'm ready to put in the time and effort to get to know you and your situation before creating the structure that works for you.

I'm sure you have other questions, but those have to wait a bit longer. Now it's my turn.

• Are you at least 18 but under 40?
• Are you single?
• Are you serious about wanting to make a change and commit to a Dom long-term?

If your answers were yes, yes and yes, I'd love to hear from you. The rest doesn't matter.

Apparently, I haven't ended up writing about your potential future self explicitly, but you know.. I don't even know your present self yet. Why don't you message me and introduce yourself? ;)