A preface: I’m looking for an emotional and intellectual connection before anything sexual or kink related. If you are not interested in investing the time to build that connection, I’m not interested in you. I am polyamorous and married and I am looking for a romantic relationship outside of just the dynamic; I am not interested in anyone who is in a closed monogamous relationship or is only open to something non-romantic. I am HSV2 (asymptomatic if that matters) so there is no need to reach out if that is something you are uncomfortable navigating.

Now that all that has been said - Hello! I live in Ohio with my husband and our pets. I’m childfree by choice but you don’t have to be. I’m a bit of a serial hobbyist and tend to get fully invested/hyperfixated on something for a while before it fizzles to general enjoyment or just a useless skill in my back pocket lol. Most recently I’ve been learning to crochet, building Lego, and playing lots of Call of Duty. But some other hobbies include crafting with my laser engraver, singing karaoke, attending concerts or music festivals, traveling, kayaking, visiting local breweries for trivia nights, gaming, watching trashy reality tv or true crime, and taking long walks. I’d describe myself as a general nerd but I also just get nerdy about anything I love.

Physically I’m 5’1”, brunette, plus size/curvy, and have tattoos. I wear glasses or contact lenses depending on my mood. I’m very open to sharing SFW photos early on because attraction is important and I don’t want either of us to waste our time. I will say that I don’t really have a “type” other than wanting someone who is hygienic and intentional about how they present themselves to the world.

As far as kink is concerned, I would describe myself overall as a service submissive. Once I trust and care for you, I want to please and be pleasing to you. I have a praise kink and want to be desired, respected, and eventually loved by my dom. Words of affirmation are important to me. I do not generally enjoy humiliation or degradation, but there’s a gray area in the context of being YOURS. (“You’re MY slut” feels good, “you’re A slut” feels bad). I am not into extreme levels of pain, I am not a masochist. My submission stems from wanting to serve and be pleasing to you and I am only inspired to do so when I feel like someone genuinely cares for me and knows that my submission is a gift. I also love having a dom that can motivate and inspire me to stay on track with my goals because he cares about my personal growth and success. If you are a good fit, you probably describe yourself as a daddy dom, a soft dom, or a pleasure dom.

We can discuss specific kinks together, I’m an open book once we start chatting! But I am a woman first and a submissive second, so please know that while I am open to discussing our kinks to make sure we are compatible, I will not be looking for a kink relationship right away.

As much as I crave it, it’s not easy for me to feel submissive. I’m an independent, capable, headstrong and confident woman looking for the right man to draw out my feminine energy.

Looking forward to seeing if the right connection is out there :)