Are you a woman in an ordinary “vanilla” marriage, unsatisfied, maybe a dead bedroom... and with a secret submissive interest or curiosity? Are you craving some form of domination or control? Can you imagine a situation where an on-line only exchange helps to satisfy this unfulfilled desire for you?

I am a dominant man, married, in a similar situation on the opposite side, and I am looking for a woman that is submissive or just has an interest in exploring her submissive thoughts and desires. But I am only interested in doing this on-line, by email or chat, in an ongoing exchange, with one woman that strongly identifies with this situation.

You are sexually dissatisfied, but not looking to cheat on your partner. So you take care of your own needs by yourself, you fantasize, you masturbate. But even that becomes somewhat boring and not very satisfying. So let’s make it more interesting.

Quite simply, I want to control your orgasms. I want to tell you when to do it, how to do it, what toys or objects to use, what to imagine while doing it.... and most importantly, deciding if and when you get to cum. My biggest interests are orgasm control, edging, teasing and denial, and giving instructions. I want to learn the things that arouse you, make you ache, push some limits, make you beg and make you ask ME for permission to cum. I want to give you a real sense of being under control and accountable.

Ideally, you are a women that is intelligent and confident, creative and expressive, always in charge in other aspects of your life, and interested in honestly sharing the experience with me in detail. That is the satisfaction I will get out of this… reading your accounts, sensing a genuine feeling of arousal and control over you, and hopefully fulfilling your need and void in an arousing way. The tasks, directions, instructions will evolve as I get to know you and learn how to push your buttons, but that all relates to how you describe your feelings, reactions and thoughts as you fulfill them.

I can assure you that I am patient, intelligent, understanding, creative, able to write coherent, complete sentences, and respectful. Yes, I can assure you that you will feel respected. And, if you follow my instruction, I can <almost> assure some of the best orgasms of your life!

Intrigued? Then perhaps we should chat.