First off, I’m married with kids and poly who tends towards the ideals of monogamish (monogamy with the wrong number), so if you’re not into that, I understand and don’t want to waste your time. I’m looking for someone who is interested in being in a (hopefully) lifelong relationship with a focus on creative pursuits and fulfilling each other’s goals and dreams. I’m 6 feet tall and dad bod at the moment, but have made a lot of gains towards a more muscular form and lean form. I believe that personality has a lot to do with compatibility since conversation is key in any relationship. I’m dominant in pretty much everything I do. But because of that, I have an inherent respect for people who can tend towards the submissive side. I’m a lot more likely to listen to someone who voices their opinion about things only after being drawn out of their mental shell since I can’t help but want to protect and nurture people who are kind and supportive.

My lifestyle is what you’d expect of a caregiving soft dom. I’m a housespouse that focuses on the development and nurturing of our kids. I’ve stubbornly suppressed my poly side since I didn’t want it to affect their early childhood development. They’re getting older (and so am I), so I figured now was the time to start looking for a throuple since that’s the direction we’re heading in. We’re also looking to move towards the Midwest since they’re more poly-friendly as opposed to the Southeast.

Ideally, you’d be into a stoic, caring, dominant figure in your life for whether you’re into being a pet, little, service, bunny, et cetera. Technically, my IQ is above 150, so I tend to talk a bit towards a higher grade level, but don’t let my vernacular scare you as I’m actually interested in people with high Emotional Quotients. A lot of my time is spent being a good father and husband, but I’ll message throughout the day and have more free time at night.

My wife and I have a strong relationship where we spend a great deal of time together. I don’t expect you to be interested in both of us on a physical level, but I’d like if you were obsessed with my wife and my relationship. I can puzzle out pretty much anything and my wife is innately good at sensing the correct path in life, but we both lack an overflowing creativity to channel that ability into. I’m hoping that we can find someone to create that kind of trifecta of creation that leads to a passion project that changes the world, or at least makes it a bit funner for people.

Send me a picture of your face and I’ll respond in kind and if you're already in a serious relationship I’m not interested in pursuing anything. I’m only seeking single women who would be available to consider long-term living together and building a desired future. No nudes or not-safe-for-work images, I’m more on the wholesome side of things. Looking forward to talking to you.