I'm 34, 5'9 160 pounds 72 kilos athletic brown hair brown eyes, fair skin. I have a photo in my profile.
With online I like to keep a 24/7 dynamic meaning we are always in our roles. Not that I have free access to you whenever I want. If you're busy or with frjends/family/work when I want something Id like to know, I can play and push but if you can't you can't and that's fine. I can use your resistance, even if it isnt your fault to punish you for later. I personally find this fun and can give us something to look forward to. I'm not usally actually angry. In the dynamic yes, I want things my way but thats part of the fun. To demand and to expect.
At any point if something feels off or you feel something did go wrong I'm always open for discussion and aftercare. I set words up to make it easier to talk as well. Yellow means I'm kind of uncomfortable/might be reaching a limit just be aware, red means stop I don't like it but don't break the scenario just move on, and strawberry means stop the scenario I want immediate aftercare and to talk about things. I've never had someone use strawberry during something but it's still better to have it. Strawberry is also another way to talk about something that's been on your mind. Text it to me randomly followed by your concerns or questions. That has been used and I love it. These dynamics work on trust and trust can't be built without communication. It's my job to take care of you but I'm human and fallable. So it's also up to you to take care of yourself. These experiences are supposed to empower us. All of us on this websites are sluts and we are proud to be. But it isn't a social norm and takes work. No matter how experienced anyone is it will always take work.
I don't want our dynamic to be purely sexual either, though I'm not looking for a romantic partner (unless you'd be willing to move to Argentina(est timezone btw) and I'm originally from the States). I love tasks and goals. I like my subs going to the gym, learning to meditate, journal, manage their outfits and other tasks as well. Not all necessary, I don't expect you to have or want all the same desires as me. I have a variety of kinks too. I'm sweet and like compliments and sweet degradation but I also like humiliation and pain. The extreme of the pain is something we can discuss together. I'm easy going and easy to talk to. And I won't start treating you as a sub until you agree to be one. So don't be surprised with the casualness of my voice on cuz there may be a switch if we connect. I do expect photos and videos and would prefer you to show your face but your face isnt a requirement. We all have to take care of ourselves. I would also prefer for both of us to send verification photos pretty Immediately, there is nothing sadder than connecting with someone and they not being your preference. I hope you understand. Im excited to hear from you. It's fun, let's play.
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