I do believe I enjoy all love languages, but using a partner just feels right and comforting. Whether it be for acts of service or intimately, I love my partners most when they are totally in my hands. So, I'm looking for someone that craves that, amongst other things.
Vanilla me I keep my life a bit compartmentalized so I wanted to outline myself as such too. I do want someone that enjoys all aspects of me though. I wear lots of black, maintain a nice beard, and have some pics on my profile. I'm very active currently, spending almost every weekday in the gym working on my powerlifting or acrobatics. Huge plus if you enjoy either of them, or just like being manhandled and tossed around. Outside of that, I also enjoy photography (mostly erotic but I do enjoy nature as well), adventures in general, and am a huge movie buff. If you'd enjoy being bound and gagged in my arms as we watch something together, what would you want to watch?
Kink me Ideally I'd want a partner that wants to work towards TPE, as they've fully put themselves into my care. But that takes a lot of time and communication, so I'm fine with someone that's new or just getting started that's intrigued at least. Beyond that, I'm big into bondage, training, objectification, dollification, pet play, free use, and so much more. I'm not a sadist in the sense that I enjoy causing pain, it's more than I'm extremely capable and knowledgeable on pain as a punishment. But if you enjoy pain, I enjoy it as well. It's hard to explain for me, but I get off based on my partners enjoyment of what's going on. Latex is a huge weakness for me as well.
There's a lot more to me, and I believe that a dynamic is best when it's tailored to everyone involved. No one is going to be a perfect match, but if we can find that deep connection, we can build from there. I have well over a decade of experience in many things, and TPE is very normal for, so please let me know how quickly you are comfortable with moving. Even total submissive require investment and acceptance, so I want to move with you, not drag you. Unless you'd enjoy that of course ;).
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