Just like the title says I'm a 33yo female from the US East Coast looking for an online Dom to start, with possible meetups down the line once a relationship is established.

I am married with an open marriage because my husband doesn't share any of my kinks. I am looking for a Daddy Dom who will set up a structure for me to help me fulfill my goals. I want someone who will work with me on exactly what the rules will be and be strict when they need to and lenient when it's warranted. I want the whole shebang. Tasks, encouragement, and punishment.

I work from home and own some Lovense toys for playtime until I feel comfortable enough to meet up with someone. I am very new to the D/s dynamic so I am looking for a patient Dom who is eager and willing to teach me more about the lifestyle while also realizing that I am new to this and might need some grace until I can learn. I am looking to hand over a moderate amount of control. I am HUGE into consent, conversation, and talking about things like adults. If you have a temper, don't apply.

My submissive style is mostly a good girl with certain times where I have the overwhelming desire to be a brat. I am also still learning how to do this, and sometimes I forget that it's not meant to irritate but to inspire. I've done a ton of research on this lifestyle and I'm ready to completely jump in and give it a go.

I am a bigger woman who has a lot of self-image issues, so please be someone who is open to that and also patient with me when overcoming certain mental blocks when it comes to sharing pictures/video/whatever. I have ADHD and anxiety, which are typically both taken care of by my ADHD meds, but they're pretty tough to get these days, so realizing that I do have that barrier is a must.

If you're looking for a girl who will make your life more fulfilling as we tackle life together and push each other to be the best versions of ourselves, while also having a ton of fun and play, feel free to message.