I hope you had a wonderful holiday season however you celebrate and wish you happiness in all its forms for the coming year. Maybe I can make it better? Here's to hoping!

Who is she, anyway?

• A small list of descriptors of who I feel I am in no particular order - intelligent, educated, emotionally available, emotionally intelligent, affectionate, kind, giving, goofy, compassionate, sarcastic, nerdy, hopeless romantic.
• I'm very physically imposing at 5'5", blonde, green eyes, and a pear-shaped body type.
• Never married and employed as a legal professional.
• I'm childfree by choice, agnostic, and progressive/liberal in my politics.
• I happily attend therapy for mental maintenance. I feel that I'm in the best place I've ever been.
• I'm a pretty above-average communicator.
• I enjoy watching sports (mainly baseball and American football, but I also enjoy football/soccer), playing video games and tabletop games.
• I love animals, my god. I want to pet all of them, and I'm convinced I'm going to die trying to pet something I shouldn't.
• I'm a big supporter of my partner and my friends. It brings me a lot of joy to be able to listen and help however I can. I have big 'mom friend' energy.
• The Oxford comma and I are best friends.
• I'm sure there's things I forgot, but if you ask, I'll answer!

Okay, but what about the spicy stuff?

• I remember where I am, don't worry! People are so much more than a list of kinks, but I'll try to provide a very minimal summary of some favorites.
• Lately I've been describing myself as a bit of a hedonist. I especially enjoy breathplay, restraints, impact, primal play, and general rough handling interspersed with a soft touch here and there. I have the usual hard limits.
• I'd say my experience is moderate. When I was younger, I spent a lot of time reading and studying BDSM erotica/discussions/psychology. Most of my dominant influences have been at a distance, and I am very eager to change that.
• I will challenge you. I have a fiery personality and I will find the line you draw in the sand and dance around it. So, while I have some bratty energy, I still want nothing more than your praise and approval. I know the difference between playful and disrespectful.

Qualities I like in a partner?

• I like my partner to share a number of the same qualities as me, of course, but an overall intelligence, passion, and kindness go a long way.
• I want my partner to be my dominant, my lover, my friend, and my home. Someone who is wanting to create something long term, committed, and beautiful.
• I find myself attracted to a wide variety of people physically, and I know that physical attraction is a key component in any relationship. If you send a SFW photo, I will send one with my response!

I am located in South Florida, in the Treasure Coast region. I have no intent to relocate in the near future, as there are just too many things that tie me here. With that in mind, please only reach out if you are also a Florida resident or have plans to relocate here in the near future. While I understand that it's silly and wishful to think that someone great is just going to bump into me at Target, I have no desire to have a strictly online penpal type of relationship.

Thank you for making it this far; I hope to hear from you soon!