Hi. Hello there. I’m Kate, a twenty three year old submissive from the UK. I’ve never had much luck finding the right dom online, but here we go again.

First of all.

I am located in the UK and would like a dom that is somewhat close by. Europe, for example. I’m not interested in talking to someone I’ll never get a chance to meet. I’m looking for an online dynamic that would to lead to an in person dynamic. I’m looking for something long term and serious. Someone I can trust completely. I’m a masochist looking for a sadist. Not a switch in the least. I have darker / taboo kinks and I want to explore things that are dark and dirty. Not lost you yet? Yay!

So. A little about me. I’m a bit of a mess, but I like it that way. I read a lot of poetry, I like philosophy and art. I am unendingly curious and I want to explore everything. I think too much about things and have a lot of scars to prove it. I’m sarcastic and have a terrible dark sense of humour. I also having a huge need to take care of people and treat them well, give them lots of affection. I could almost be maternal in a lot of ways, if I wasn’t so childish. I am happy spending time by myself, reading and writing and listening to music, or adoring you and giving you massages and sloppy slow blowjobs and treating you right. Sometimes I struggle to take a hint, and will pester you for attention, but a quick shout at me will remind me to give you your space. In general, I’m naturally submissive. But sometimes I like to blow of steam and can be a bit of a brat. But if that’s not your thing, I’m very open to modifying my behaviour. I’m a people pleaser and I really, really want to please you.

And a little about you? I’m not exactly picky, but there’s definitely things I find more attractive in my man. I don’t care so much about looks, but I would definitely say I prefer a more casual build or a ‘dad bod’ rather than a lot of muscles. I like men that seem a bit rough around the edges really, but who know what they want and aren’t afraid to ask for it. Not holding things back is important to me. Bluntness, even. The ability to say what your thinking. Domineering, controlling. I like men who like words and who have a bit of a fucked up and rude vocabulary. Possessive, jealous. Generally sadistic and who get a kick of seeing their girl cry or be embarrassed or in pain because of them, knowing that she is getting turned on because of it. On the other side of that, I’m also looking a man that understands how important aftercare is and can build me up as much as they tear me down. I like cuddles, as much as I don’t like to admit it. And head pats, affection. Make me think you don’t love me and then make me think you do.

Ultimately, that’s what I’m looking for in this relationship. I would like a partner who is as equally fucked up as me. We can explore all the dark depths of the human psyche together. We would face a lot of really hard things but always stick together, because your my ride or die and I’m endlessly devoted to you. The ups and down we face in a week will give me emotional whiplash and drive me to near insanity, but you would always bring me back. I would look after you and listen to you, worship you with everything I have. I’d feed you and care for you and give you every bit of my heart, and you’d give me yours. Bruises, blood, bite marks and scratches would mark me as your property. In public you would tease me relentlessly until I was a quivering mess, and if you didn’t, I’d be sure to try and tease you. Even though I’m sure I’d end up paying for it. We’d stay up into the early hours of the morning doing the most sinful sensual things, then I’d bring you coffee when we wake up to say thank you.

That’s just a bit of what I imagine the relationship I’m looking for to be like. I have so, so many kinks. But these are the most important to me:

Free Use

CNC

Knife Play

Forced Intoxication

Misogyny / Gaslighting / Manipulation

Forced Petplay / DDLG

Orgasm Denial and Overstimulation

Behaviour Control and Modification (specifically speech)

Reach out of me if you think we would have a connection. I probably won’t reply to everyone, but if you put effort into your message and seem like the right fit, I’ll probably reply to you. Telling me your most important kinks is always a good place to start if you struggle with long messages and stuff. I’d love to hear from you x