Hi there!

We made it through the first week of the year or as I like to call it the "circling back email" week. So far though, 2024 seems promising. Maybe it's the hope of the fresh start. Maybe it's the fact that it's an even numbered year. Who knows! But there is something in the air and we should capitalize on it.

Let's make this year the year of some truly kinky fun!

What does that mean? Well, to me, any proper D/s dynamic involves intimate trust and connection. And that doesn't just happen. So I do want to know who you are, what you're looking for, and where you want to go. Even if you're not sure of your answers to any of those questions, you know you're looking for something real, something deep, and something naughty. I'm looking for a true submissive partner, emphasis on the partner aspect.

So who am I? To give you the highlights: I'm 36, 6'2", and I rock a beard. I'm based in Brooklyn and have been practicing kink for almost a decade now. I've got a career that I love, a solid group of friends that I enjoy spending my free time with, and a bevy of hobbies that I can prattle on about for hours. I'm in therapy (gotta work on the noggin) and I hit the gym a few times a week (gotta work on the bod). I still do Wordle and I'd be happy to swap Connections scores every morning.

What about the dirty stuff? Glad you asked! I do lean Dominant. I've had a variety of experiences across the spectrum of D/s, power exchange, and kink. A list, that is by no means exhaustive, of things I'm into is bondage, hair pulling, spanking, orgasm control, denial, rimming, and cum play, but really it's more about finding out what we like together rather than hitting a check list, you know? I'm looking for that sexy chemistry that's undeniable rather than a PowerPoint presentation. Communication, consent, and radical honesty are always present as well as keeping things safe.

If this sounds intriguing, send me a chat of something you want to do in 2024 and let's get this year started off with a bang!