TL;DR: I'm an experienced, active, life loving german Dom looking for a sub who is equally passionate and yearns to give into/be challenged by her trusted partner for a rewarding kinky relationship that one day might become an irl one?

About me AKA "Who is this man?"

My looks: I'm 25, single, white, dark brown hair with hazel eyes, athletic build, 6'2 , non-smoker, I don't take any drugs, fully shaven and more than well endowed. I also have some Balkan roots some people seem to detect from my looks alone, so hopefully I am your type already?

Personality: I'm a passionate and supporting. I've been described as playful, caring, communicative, honest, mature, witty, easy to talk to, driven, kinky, patient, open-minded... and a lot more. My love languages tend to be quality time, physical touch, and words of depravation.

Interests: Part homebody, part social. I've got a pretty wide assortment of interests such as: film (almost any genre but my biggest passion tends to be sci-fi), Tennis, art (I miss having someone to visit museums), games (tabletop video), reading/writing (tied to my love for RPs), languages (I speak two and continuing to learn a third with a fourth planned down the road) and programming! Hopefully we share a few interests already to nerd about :)

Daily life: I'm goal-oriented. I have a career that I'm passionate about. I live with my family since we all share a tight close bond and family is a big part of my life (Don't worry they don't know about my escapades and won't get in our way). I own the cutest dog there is! I consider D/s to be an essential part of my romantic relationship, not just something for the bedroom (more on that below). I will always make time for my partner and expect the same in return.

Who and what I'm looking for

Let's be a kinky power couple together! Submission and D/s are not mutually exclusive from having agency in life. In fact, they're complimentary. I'm looking for someone who considers herself passionate/driven/ambitious (whatever that means to you) - but also dreams of relinquishing control in the right hands. Someone craving to be with a trusted partner who will challenge her, and help her succeed in everything she desires in life through the care, safety, structure, pleasure, discipline of a holistic D/s dynamic... This lifestyle is meant to make us be the best version of ourselves for each other, so shall We?

My ideal partner has the same qualities that I bring: she loves to explore and try new things, she's active and takes care of her physical mental health, she has goals, she is communicative, empathetic, giving, loyal, honest, kinky with an ungodly libido, emotionally available and serious about finding a Dom partner.

I'm open to every s-type identity (sub, little, middle, pet, brat, slut, etc.).

Location: South germany. I'm comfortable with an LDR at first but would ultimately look for a relationship in person so relocating must be possible on your end. Don't worry it is possible for me as well.

Do you already recognize yourself and think we could be compatible? Don't hesitate to DM me!

I know it can be intimidating to message so please know you are always appreciated. <3

The kinky stuff

Experience: Whether this is your first rodeo or nor, I'm welcoming of all as I've been in the lifestyle for the past 7 years. In that time, I've had D/s relationships to different degrees (including DDlg, cuckolg, TPE, M/s, low/mid/high protocol) which have led me to narrow down what I need and look for, hence this post. I'm an open book and always happy to answer anything on your mind. If you're curious we're probably a perfect match already!

D/s dynamic: I consider myself your comfort, and accountability rolled into one. Nurturing but exhilarating, sweet yet firm, dominant but respectful. The one constant is that I'm big on communication and care, making our relationship not just a safe-space but something unique to us. My partner is a priority for me, just as I want to be for her. That means I would like to chat regularly and spend time together since this is a relationship. I'm also a believer in (negotiated) structure and rules beyond the bedroom. Each dynamic is unique so it's not a one-size-fits-all. Obviously nothing happens until we've established clear connection, consent, and mutual respect. Much more to discuss together.

My hard limits - ABDL/diapers and scat

My kinks - Include impact play, exhibitionism, bondage/shibari, sensation play, orgasm control/edging, some humiliation/degradation, praise, group play, training/tasks/protocols, pet play, among others...

Voilà.

If the fact that I've written these multiple paragraphs to find you gets you excited, then the only thing left is to message me. I'll always welcome your words... Happy new year and I hopefully hear from you soon!