Hey there! Thanks for reading this long post. I think it truly incapsulates who I am as a person.

A little about me, I am a huge lover of movies, television, video games, board games, museums, and sports. I also workout 5 to 6 times a week, but I wouldn’t call myself a gym rat. You can call me a nerd of all traits. I can get into the ramblings of how the Jedi truly turned the republic into the galactic empire and where actually blinded by the power they were given by the republic, or talk about how the eagles Super Bowl loss was tarnished due to a holding call, it was holding, that shouldn’t have been called at that moment. I’m also about to start working on my masters and doctorate degrees with the plan to finish both by 2028. I will be attending university in London for my Masters degree starting September of 2024. So if you can travel to London, or it’s easy to travel to you from London, I’ll be there.

Red flags about me: I classify myself as a recently put back together glass vase. I look like I can handle everything you give me and put on me, but truly I’m just barley hanging on at times. When I do break, I tend to disatcosiate and push away my family and friends. I have been hurt too many times by people I trust so it’s hard to trust back. I am in therapy for this and am working on it. I tend to be clingy. The last red flag that I can think of right now is my tendency to hyper fixate. I’m not sure what it is, maybe trauma, but I will pay attention to every single little thing that happens around someone rather than the person. I’m not sure if it’s just my active mind or me being nervous. Therapy is helping! I haven’t done any of these in a very long time, but they were apart of my life and I felt like a future partner should know.

About you: honestly I just want loyalty. Someone who can just be by my side and know that I have the moments when I just wanna hold them to know I feel safe, and then later take them out to show them off. Someone who understands my love for them. Someone who knows that I will burn the world down if they talk bad about you or do anything to hurt you. I have a deep sense of loyalty and I’d like my partner to have the same.

What I’m looking for: So I know a lot of people will come here and say they are looking for a sub. While that is true, a submissive to me is someone I care for. I order her food, I fill up the car with gas, I drive of we are together (she can pick the tunes), I make the decisions and they support the decisions and help me. I want a life partner who will be by my side through it all. I want that woman who is my peace, not my fear. I love spoiling and taking care of what is mine and I want to be possessive of what is mine. I want to flaunt off what’s mine and make sure that everything she is she can show her true self. I want a forever and not a fling.

Kinks: I have been a member of the kink/bdsm community for just over 10 years now. I have had my fair share of exploring my dom style and it would fall into the category of daddy dom/soft dom. Now don’t take it the wrong way, I have my sadistic side and it can come out if you push the right buttons. I am an experimentalist at heart and want to try new kinks! My list includes orgasm control, sadist, exhibition, bimbofication, overstimulation, impregnate, hypno play, ddlg, and pet play. There are more but those are ones I tend to gravitate to more.

Appearance: I’m 5’11, white, blue eyes, short hair, average build but currently working to make it more athletic.

I’d love to get to chat and talk with anyone and everyone. Thank you so much for reading this. Please feel free to send a chat! If you can list 3 places you’d travel to if money was no object, then I will hit you back up. Look forward to finding you!