Being a pleasure dom can be tough work. We’re constantly fighting our urges to give you exactly what you want.

As much as we like our rules, games, denial, and the verbal sparring we have with brattier subs, it's very difficult to control ourselves when we have a gorgeous sub dressed precisely as we like, ready and willing for whatever comes next. There’s nothing more that we want than to see you cum over and over again. So really, our interests are aligned (and I’ll be sure to keep in communication with you to make sure we’re always covering each others needs). But to properly handle subs- give you what you NEED, and not just what we want- I have to use every drop of resolve I have to keep an iron will when we’re in a scene. I promise I’ll give you exactly what you need, eventually. But that might end up with you squirming in soaked panties for hours while I tease you until you’re begging to finish. I'll give you precisely what you deserve.

These dynamics really excite me, and I put a lot of effort into the sexual side of relationships, but one of the most exciting things for me is to have this kind of dynamic and communication be one part of a strong relationship. I’m looking for someone to explore and grow with in life and love. It’d be both sexy and romantic. Maybe I’d gently pick you up from behind one day, or bring some sweets home to share just because I like seeing you smile. Having the type of life where we can share in kink, sex, and romance is a long-term goal for me.

So on that note, let me tell you a little about myself: I’m 6’0, 28M, broad and built, and ruggedly attractive with long hair, glasses, and a tidy beard. I’m gainfully employed, big fan of science, music, and baking, and would love to hear more about your interests and passions! I'm living in Waterloo Region, Canada, and ideally looking for someone within driving distance, or at least with the capability to make this in-person.

Overall:

I value communication and emotional maturity, and I’m looking to settle down in a long-term monogamous relationship with someone who also has the drive and commitment to build friendship as much as we line up sexually and kink-wise. Eventually, my dating goals are to get married and start a family.

If you find any of this interesting, just introduce yourself with a message that includes your age and location and we can see if we’re compatible from there! I'm looking forward to getting to know you.

Kinks: worship, giving oral fingering, sensitivity/strong arousal, BDSM, praise, cuddling, impact, CNC

Limits: bathroom-related stuff, butt stuff (my own only)

Thanks for reading my post. In any case, I hope you find someone that satisfies you soon.