I'm actually a decent Mistress and I play safe, every time . I'm single and looking for a new sub and potential partner, but I'm open to a bit of casual play too, not to mention some saucy chat, if you're up for that.

165lbs / Single / Live alone / 5'7

So what do I like? I like Men who are submissive. I like roleplay too and uniforms. security / police woman, you name it, if you dress up for me, I guarantee well both enjoy it.

I prefer ropes to chains, cuffs and straps. cloth gags over ball gags and the like. I also like blindfolds. I don't like extreme violence, but a little punishment is always sexy and fun. Also not keen on rubber or leather. Hoods and so on are not for me. I want to be able to see my partner when I'm with him. Bottom line is it's really bondage rather than BDSM.

So, first the important ideological bit.....(the fun sexy bits next!)

I believe that like any other form of intimate relationship, one with bondage or BDSM at it's heart is a learning curve, for everyone, no matter how experienced you are, or think you are, because each new relationship brings with it different challenges. Everyone's different and different people like different things and equally dislike other things. I believe you can't and shouldn't make assumptions. Just because you tried something with your ex, who was really turned on by something, doesn't mean your new man equally into it. You need to check. It's called manners!

Also, I know and accept that Just because I'm a Dom doesn't mean that I have the right to do whatever the hell I want to, irrespective of my partners wishes. It's his body, after all, and I know I'm being given a great honour and privilege by being allowed to play with him. I think it's about mutual pleasure and acceptance of boundaries. I think it's important to value and respect the slave I'm with. I feel it's important to know the rules before we start to play and then we can both relax and let go.