Hi! So I'll start a bit with myself and then what I'm looking for. My name is Vyn for now, (its a nickname). Obviously as you read, I'm a 23yo transman! I'm Autistic and have some other fancy stuff going on. I'm really interested in anything space or dinosaur related! I absolutely go crazy for dad jokes and memes. I love laughing and think its one of the most important things in any relationship. I game and read a ton although gaming has been falling off for me lately so more reading and watching shows/movies.I'm really, really bad at small talk and I'm a very awkward little thing. I am a generally energetic guy and am a believer in romance. I love to ramble to my significant other about anything I learn or am doing. Quality time is also very important, even if we are on a call together, each doing our own thing. I also love to learn, especially from my significant other. I believe a good foundation of friendship and trust is very important and hope whoever responds will feel the same.
I am a submissive, a very heavy leaning submissive although I have gentle dommed before and do enjoy it periodically. I am also a little and would love that caregiver aspect as well. I really want to make it clear the dynamic I'm looking for and the type of sub I am. I am NOT a slave. I am not looking for a master or mistress (I get it so often). I am looking for a healthy balance of relationship/bdsm dynamic. I want to be able to ask my domme what I should eat that day and let them pick because it's too hard for me. I obviously wanna be dominated in the bedroom but outside of it as well. I want to sit on my knees next to my domme or in between their legs while they play with my hair. I want them to limit screen time sometimes because I'm getting carried away. I don't want the relationship to be inherently sexual. I am also a pleasure submissive. I absolutely love giving my domme pleasure both sexually and even appeasing them by completing task they ask.
It has been awhile since I have had a dom so I would need someone who was gentle and patient as I tap back into that side of myself. I feel it is also important to mention, I am at work for almost 12hrs a day so my replies on work days are pretty scattered!!
If you read this far, please respond with more than just a hi or how are you.
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