The hard part about being a submissive without a dynamic is that you just don’t know what to do.

You probably want to try new things, but unsure where to start or how to do it safely. You might enjoy edging and tasks, but without accountability they just don’t get you turned on.

I’ve had similar talks with submissives and end up doing a short term dynamic with the goal of training and preparing them for a future irl bf/Dom. And now I’m just going to start with this offer to you.

Now, during the training process I will expect you to be mine. I’ll be putting in effort and expect a fair dynamic balance, it’s a bit transactional but most relationships a nd dynamics are in their own way.

First, message me and tell me what you’re looking for in the long run. What kind of dynamic you want to have for the rest of your life. If you want to be a garbage slave that has no rights or a princess cumslut that’s a trophy to be shown off at parties.

Then we’ll chat about kinks, limits, and availability.

Depending on the above answers, we can guess about how long it’ll take. I’ll be up for extending times or whatever’s needed, but I like goals.

Some core expectations.

1. Photos and videos. With an online dynamic these are expected, but we can take our time with it. I also share the same, even day to day stuff. We’ll be using SC.

2. Daily/reoccuring tasks. I often will use an app to maintain all of the tasks. These are to help you develop a standard practice in the future as well.

3. Toys and outfits, or ability to purchase them. Again, with online play toys and outfits are very helpful, but in truth not 100% necessary.

4. Freedom to make noise. I’ve tried submissive that have Roomates or SOs, it only works if the other person knows about it. (I’ve trained a sub with a bf and he loved it.)

Preferred topics.

1. Body type - petite, fit, curvy, thick, used to be fit, skinny. I’m just not into BBW, sorry.

2. Kinks. I’m open to a variety of kinks, but I tell to lean more extreme and rough than most. So if you’re on the edge of being “too much” then we’ll probably be fine.

To apply.

I’ve done this before and actually get a good bit of responses. So make sure to include the below information.

1. What you look like. Description is fine, photo gets bonus points.

2. Kinks you enjoy the most.

3. What draws you to kink? Why do you want to be a submissive?

4. Any restrictions. Living situation, time, non-limit things.

5. Hard and soft limits.

6. What an ideal dynamic looks like to you. The one you’re looking for and trying to prepare for.