Here I am again. I’m looking for A male-led, taken in hand lifestyle relationship. Not just a side thing, not just something done in the dark to get my rocks off, not something that starts online because of distance or a pandemic and stays online because it’s just a fantasy and you can’t fathom fantasies being in a real, ACTUAL relationship. Wild, I know. This means something that has kink structure, but also has vanilla crossover. You’d wake up to orders and instructions, be micromanaged and examined, slapped and spit on, but I also want to go on nice dates and snuggle while we watch Netflix. Think a 1950’s lifestyle but more modern, ideally with heavy TPE overtones, as that tends to leave me the most fulfilled.

What I’m NOT Looking for: I’m not interested in a one time thing, being your slave, being your father or anything where this impacts my busy schedule.

I describe myself as a mild mannered yuppie. Some things I enjoy are cooking, working out, watching sports, exploring the city and trying new things. some big picture bulletpoints: I’m single, monogamous, never married, no kids, lives alone, has a job, doesn’t have STDs/STIs (tested 11/24). We all have needs, wants, and preferences, and the list version of some of my big ones are below. These are just some general guidelines, so if you don’t check every single box exactly but still feel we’d be an amazing fit, message me anyway and show me.

• Single
• Monogamous
• Childless
• 18 to 30
• Gainfully employed/in school
• No serious/unmedicated mental health issues
• Looking for something IRL and longterm
• Sends pictures in their opening message, which will be a private message and not a chat
• Doesn’t try to turn this into some cringe-worthy roleplay as an escapist exercise

The Fun Stuff: You’ve made it this far, My broad kinks include: - 24/7 TPE - Wardrobe control - Orgasm control - Impact - Hairpulling - Spitting - Primal - DDLG - Ropes/Restraints - Exhibition - Praise - Humiliation/Degradation - Anal/Anal training - Breeding - Displays of ownership/cnc

Some things I have no interest in/are my limits: group, choking (with hands), blood/gore/vomit, rimming, extreme sadism, animals/furries, anything illegal or evil.

Also, please note I work traditional hours, so if I don’t respond right away don’t think it’s because I’m not going to, it’s because I’ll do it once I have some down time. A lot of the people I’ve met are great, and I’ve definitely been learning more and more about what works for me, but as we all know this can be like searching for a needle in a haystack, and I’m not giving up just yet. In either case, good luck in your search and in this new year.