TL;DR: Loving & affectionate soft Dom looking for an intelligent, driven and independent woman who craves submission and an intense emotional connection within the context of a committed and wholesome D/s relationship.

I love a size difference, so I have a strong preference for short, slim and petite women.

If you are not willing to take the time and read every word after this then please move on.

Requirements:

• Employed
• Monogamy
• Biological woman
• Lives a healthy lifestyle
• Prioritizes mental health
• Regular gym attendance
• Financially stable/literate
• Open to eventual relocation
• Desires marriage eventually
• Open to children (I'm undecided myself)
• Desires an emotional connection before a physical one

Deal Breakers:

• Drug use
• STDs/STIs
• Politics is one of your main personality traits.

Me: I am 5'11" 180 lbs. physically fit, fair skinned, with red hair and a red beard. No piercings or tattoos and I am drug and disease free.

I am a quiet, reserved, plain speaking and unassuming man with a laid back personality resulting in a healthy mixture of confidence, assertiveness and wit. I am primarily an introvert, but I do enjoy intimate nights out for dinner and drinks.

I am a certified cuddle slut and big spoon. Physical touch and quality time are my primary love languages. I am a loving & affectionate Partner and I adore non sexual intimacy & togetherness such as grocery store trips, evening dog walks, and chore sharing.

Financial literacy and stability are priorities for me. I save, I invest and I am careful with my money. I expect the same priorities from my partner. I am also a homeowner.

Politically I am very centered, and I value individual liberty. Like a lot of people I desire moderation in our politics.

My interests and passions are weight lifting, baseball, reading, cooking, youth mentorship, art, hiking, fishing, hunting, video games, DIY, traveling and National Parks just to name a few.

As a Dominant I have 4.5 years of experience, so I am not a rookie, but I am also not a pro. I still have much to learn and I would love to share and experience my future learnings with my Partner. I am a loving Soft/Pleasure Dom. My style of Domination is mostly D/s with very specific portions of Dd/lg (no age play/regression). My method of domination revolves heavily around Ownership, Power Exchanges & Free Use with certain elements of Discipline & Predator/prey sprinkled in. My role in the relationship is that of a leader, owner and protector. D/s is a private affair for me, so while this would not be "bedroom only" it would be just between you and I. I have no desire to participate in my local kink community. I find them to be cringey and over the top.

I will be more than happy to share my kinks with you in private, but my hard limits are as follows: Sadism, Age Play/Regression, Children, Animals, Blood, Body modifications, Diapers, Permanent Marks, Pet Play, Scat, Puke & Urine.

You: A capable, ambitious, independent and intelligent woman who is in control of her work, social life and hobbies, but craves to submit. You are single and emotionally available.

Within the context of a relationship you have a burning desire to submit and be owned, but be loved, cherished and respected for it. Like me you have a burning desire for a strong and intense emotional bond, built on a foundation of trust, communication, commitment and friendship.

Traits I value in a Partner are kindness, class, empathy, maturity, emotional intelligence and a strong moral character.

Conclusion: If you have read every word of my post and it aligns with what you are looking for I would love to chat, so please send me a bio about yourself and be prepared to exchange SFW pictures.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read my post. I wish you all the best of luck in your search.