It’s a new year, and I want to find a kinky resolver to coach, discipline, and praise as she works towards her goal(s).

I have a lot of experience training willing, honest, and vulnerable submissives, both IRL and online, and love the idea of committing to a year-long dynamic with the right partner.

I’m open to a wide range of kinks/goals, but for context, in the past, I’ve helped partners:

• Overcome squeamishness (anal, urine, cum, messy face-fucking);
• Safely embrace promiscuity/sluttiness;
• Push physical limits (pain tolerance, vaginal stretching/fisting, enjoying anal, improving gag reflexes, exercise programs, dieting);
• Become disciplined, generally (orgasm denial/control, bathroom use control);
• Learn to submit more fully; and
• Manage their vanilla life better (finances, self-esteem, self-care, studies)

Those are just for context, and every dynamic is different, so I expect to work together on a plan, limits, and targets.

My ideal partner is:

• Honest. Especially with online dynamics, honesty and transparency are critical. I’ll test you, invade your privacy, and ask uncomfortable questions, and expect completely honest answers.
• Consistent. You’ll have to follow our plan, honor rules, and fulfill my requests in a timely fashion.
• Monogamous (within reason). I’m open to a partner who is attached IRL, though it’s much easier if ours is the only D/s dynamic in your life. I’d rather avoid someone who is juggling dynamics. Sexual monogamy is entirely dependent on the goals and shape we establish, but at minimum, I will expect transparency.
• Exhibitionistic. Once trust is established, you will unequivocally be expected to share details, photos, and videos with me.
• Attractive. Mutual attraction is important to me, and makes it a lot easier to build intimacy. I’m open to a lot of physical types/ages, and will expect to swap SFW pics or have a video call early-on.
• RACK-adherent. Any level of experience is fine, but please be familiar with and accepting of RACK principles.
• A Telegram user. I use Telegram for lots of non-kinky things, so it’s preferred. I’m open to other secure channels, but want to get off Reddit ASAP 🤗

In addition to the training, I hope to become true friends. I travel often and work too much, but am fairly responsive on chat. While our dynamic will be the foundation, we will also stay in touch, vent, discuss vanilla/SFW stuff, etc.

A little about me: - 45, cute, caucasian - Heavily tattooed - Successful, educated - Based on the east coast in the DC area - Average height (5’9”), fit/lean - Active, but also geeky - Pleasure Sadist, rigger, voyeur - Not even slightly switchy - Obsessed with aftercare, but also with constant caretaking - Well-endowed and well-groomed, if it matters…

My SFW interests are primarily:

• Finance/capital markets
• Music, especially 80s/90s punk/indie, instrumental beats/electronica, but also loads of other genres
• Cooking, exploring cuisines
• Rock climbing
• Dad jokes, dumb memes, dark humor
• Tech (I’m an executive but still love to write code and tinker)
• Some gaming, but I’m not obsessive

Aside from discipline, control, and privacy invasion, I am into and experienced with a lot of kinks. My main interests IRL are impact/spanking, orgasm control, sensory overload/deprivation, face/throat abuse, breath play, arterial choking, and some aspects of watersports/bathroom use control. Nothing is a hard requirement, and the list is far from exclusive.

Hard limits are all things illegal, role play, race play, blackmail, body shaming (unless it’s your kink and negotiated), and scat play.

If you think we may be a fit, send a message with a little about yourself. If you already have resolutions, share them with me. If you’re inspired and want to come up with goals, share some ideas.

Happy new year!