BASICS: 53 yo man from Cleveland. 5’11”, 195. I’m looking for a submissive woman (18-40) that wants and needs to be controlled and guided. I'm looking for long-term, live-in. I am open to play, but looking for serious primarily. Me.

ME: I’ve been in the lifestyle on and off for 15 years. I love the dynamic of D/s. I'm also fixed, so no kids or breeding. I’m an intellectual and geek. I love movies, language, literature, gaming, politics, animation, science and cooking. I don't smoke at all (regular smokers need not apply). I don't do drugs. Drink rarely. Sadly, I’m allergic to most pets (so be advised if you refer to your pets as your “children”.)

MY KINKS: Age gap, TPE (total power exchange), rough sex and sex on demand, objectification, praise and degradation, obedience training, protocols, bondage (girls look fantastic in a collar and lead), spanking, whipping, choking, slapping, bruising, pain, control of dress, diet and behavior.

MY LIMITS: No scat, diapers, hard abuse, drugs, blood, or animals. Also, I do not share with men.

YOU: 18-40, cis-female, very submissive, good mind and a good sense of humor. Healthy and height-weight-proportionate (sorry, no BBWs). Non-smoker.  Non-drug user. Want to be controlled in and out of the bedroom. Willing to serve and be trained as a sub. This is not for the timid, so if you're basically a vanilla girl going through a kink phase, I won't be right to you.

RELOCATION: I'm only looking for subs with potential to relocate to me if we get serious. Not everyone can relocate even if they wanted to, so please be realistic about your own situation.

SCAMMERS, FUCK OFF: I have NO interest in OnlyFans, Amazon Wishlists, sex workers, girls looking to be "spoiled" or that want "gas money" or anybody else trying to pick my pocket.

FINALLY: I greatly appreciate people with manners. It takes so little effort but is tragically rare these days. I never ghost people. I'll tell you directly if I'm interested or not. I don't waste anyone's time.