About Me

I come across as serious and driven (because I am), but deep down I crave being used. On the outside I look like a dominant, confident, and attractive guy. I love staying active and take my fitness very seriously. In the interest of discretion, I’ll just say that I’m highly educated and absolutely love what I do. I’m fortunate to have a career that makes the world a better place (at least in small ways), and I care a lot about that mission.

What I’m Looking for

I’m less interested in lists of kinks and more about specific feelings. I love being teased. Tie me up or hold me down, your breath hot in my ear as you whisper something degrading and delicious. Make me twitch at even the softest touch because as soon as I let my guard down, I’ll regret it. Leave me breathless and whimpering, begging for more or less or I-don’t-even-know-what-anymore. Keep me desperate so that whenever you want, however you want, you can have your way with me.

If lists of kinks are more your thing, here’s the latest iteration of mine: orgasm control/denial, bondage, spanking, discreet public play, and tasks/rewards/punishment. Not interested in any anal play, pegging, sissification, or findom. Our lists don’t have to match perfectly; I love trying new things and am looking for someone who helps me find and stretch my limits.

Ideally, I’m looking for a casual dating or friends with benefits situation. Some of my kinks are best enjoyed over longer periods of time than just an evening here or there and enjoying each other’s company outside of sex is a big plus.

About You

Outside the bedroom, I like women who are affable, kind, and clever. I’m inquisitive and highly attracted to passionate people who let me pick their brains. A sense of humor is a must. If you make me laugh or I make you laugh that’s great (warning: my jokes are terrible), but mostly I’m looking for someone who doesn’t take life too seriously. I’m an optimist and hope you are, too.

Other miscellaneous things: I’m not looking for anything online so you’ll need live in or regularly visit New York. Age is less important to me than your demeanor and physical presence - I am open minded, I just ask that you be fairly fit/thin.

If you think we’d hit it off, send a message that’ll give me an idea if we might be compatible. What you’re passionate about and a picture are a good start if you’re not sure what to write.

More than anything else I’m looking for chemistry, and I’ve learned the hard way that chemistry online doesn’t necessarily translate to real life. So once we’ve established we’re probably real human beings who might be interested in each other, lets meet up for a low-pressure drink and see where that takes us.

Thanks for reading this far and best of luck in finding what you’re looking for!