I am an AFAB Genderflux (femme) 20-year-old interested in learning about BDSM and myself in BDSM, as well as meeting new people. I'm a sub who's primarily interested in bondage with ropes especially, PPE, protocol (to some degree), sensory play, collars and leashes, and so on. On top of this, I do have a voice/hand kink. These are things to build up to as I'm completely new to dynamics, I know better than to throw myself into a 24/7 PPE dynamic off the bat. I'm based in Sweden, though honestly. I prefer people further away for safety reasons. This is however relevant due to time zones.

I identify as aegosexual, which is on the asexual spectrum. So please have experience with that or be prepared for the dynamic not to involve anything sexual. If you are asexual yourself, great! If you are not... as long as there's no pressure I don't mind!

What I'm looking for is a gentle Dom and partner who values connection and care rather than sex and punishments. However physical attraction is important to me in both relationships and dynamics. Both of these are on the table if you're willing to first get to know me, gain my trust (and let me gain yours), and let it take its time. For appearance, I do prefer skinny/lean men, either white or East Asian in appearance. Facial hair/excessive body hair is also a no-go. I am a slightly chubby east asian myself. Experience is a bonus, as well as a willingness to give references and join educational discord servers with me ^^

I am not interested in Findom at all. Most taboo things (gore, vore, excrement) as well as ageplay and heavy degradation are also off the table. I have other limits but they can be discussed in DMs. I will only accept requests from people aged 20-24, due to bad experiences with age differences in the past, as well as preference.

I'm monogamous for the most part, but primarily I just do not want to share my partner. I'd be willing to have multiple Doms if that is discussed and what is agreed upon, but no other subs should be involved in the dynamic.

I'm a huge PC gamer. Primarily League of Legends and Overwatch, though can be convinced to play other stuff like Valorant. I also do not like drug usage, smoking, or any substances... Drinking is fine in moderation. But I do not partake in any of the above.

The start of our dynamic is going to be online, as I live with my parents currently and as such cannot just up and travel or meet up with people. It may transition to IRL at some point if that is wanted, and we have known each other for long enough. Preference for other EU people. however if your times work with mine, other continents and time zones are not off the table.

If you got this far, good job! First contact through this account, and then through Discord if comfortable to both. Thank you for reading, and please ask anything you want to know.