Hello my dominant girls and women ;)

Just in case you are a man and managed to stumble upon my F4F post: I am happy for you to read it as entertainment, but please do not write me for it, you are not whom I am looking for. Have a nice day and I hope you find someone here for you!

But back to whom this post is for. The mistresses, femdoms and lezdoms. I am Morgan, a young woman very much into brat-play and non-con both in my fiction and media as well as in my BDSM play. I have written my own fair share of BDSM stories under different online persona's and I love the freedom to explore this boundary of enjoying something you are forced to enjoy. To get your choices taken away by someone who knows you want it and like it, even if you superficially disagree with that. But one of the really difficult elements in real life about that is: No-one can know your mind better then yourself in that way. Or at least not without either years of education and a thorough examination of you (psychologist) or just years of spending time with you (a partner). And as such, the whole non-area is so much more tricky with other people. Because of that I really like brat-play! In my mind a form of non-con on the lighter side, that a) helps to get some of the same feelings and b) gets you punished, which is often enjoyable for me! I really need my ass spanked 😘 And I go further into what being a brat is for me in my "Yes, I am a girl, no I am not a dom" pinned post.

So, why I am writing all of this? For the longest time, I really enjoyed sensual and more softer domination. But recently, the harsher, the more humiliating and degrading side of domination has me drawn to it. And I want to see, if the dark allure it holds over me is hinting at some kinks and fetishes waiting to be explored, or if it is the call of the abyss in the same way as looking down a giant cliff can be weirdly fascinating!

I am searching here for a mistress. Not to spend my life with, but for exchange, sessions, to explore this area and see if I can be into it. I am not saying I am closed off to finding something permanent, but in my experiencing going out looking for it is a great recipe to get trapped in bad situations, so I want to be open to the possibility but not put any pressure on that.

But what do I offer and bring to the table? Well, a quirky, decent looking woman working in IT and nerdy enough to play DnD and Pathfinder for 7 years and having GMed for 5. 😘 My main kinks are bondage, spankings and other impact play, mental domination, anal play, latex and medical kink. I really want to be made to enjoy the severe power discrepancy between us, and if you are more experience in this sphere I would love to know what your opinion on the best way to do that is!

As far as my limits goes: underage, gore, blood, scat, urine, humilation or degradation to the point I feel worthless, sessions without aftercare and sending real time pics. Yes, I do have some pics I carefully chose and am willing to share, but I won't just share those with anybody and making me take a video or picture at your demand will not happen. 😘

Well, that is at least my usual list of limits... I want to talk a bit about the point about humiliation and degradation. It might seem weird to make that point here and it is in a way a soft limit for me in this endeavour. I still left it in the list to make clear: I can hit a point, where my experiences and my history of low self esteem can twist something I love into a hatred of myself and be harmful to me. If that happens, I will use a safe-word or similar and I am aware of the risk of it happening, but I would rather try to avoid it. 😘

Thank you for reading my long and meandering post, and I hope to hear from you in my chat requests!

Morgan