Looking for someone in central/southern Minnesota only, within one hour of either St. Cloud, Mankato, or the Twin Cities, I am NOT willing to do long distance again Also please know I don't send nudes and if you're gonna delete your profile after 24 hours or as soon as I suggest getting together, don't waste either of our time and please skip my post lol

Hi there!

Gonna try to make this efficient- please read this whole post and then message me with the following info if you're interested: your age, location, confirmation you read this all and that the dealbreakers aren't an issue; if any are, expand on your situation/explain why they won't be an issue forever, and then tell me a bit about you as a person, and please send a face pic.

So I'm hoping posting on a sub like this might save me some time in finding my person. I'm tired of matching with guys on dating apps that want to dominate me in the bedroom; like no, that's my job, I'm in charge haha. When I tried adding some clues to my preferences to posts on regular dating subs on my main profile that just seemed to lead to a lot of dick pics (which maybe that's just Reddit idk) so here goes:

I'm a 35F located west of Minneapolis (outside the suburbs), with a vibrant life full of friends and family, and a career/business that I love. I own my home/car/etc., and my motorcycle lol. I'm 5'7", a BBW but ppl tell me I'm pretty, so sure I guess? Dating has been difficult due to my location and what I'm looking for/dealbreakers below. Add in that I'd ideally like to be with a sexually submissive guy and the pool shrinks even smaller so I'm hoping that you reading this are the one I've been looking for!

Speaking of that, I'm looking for someone that's single, generally between the ages of 27-42, local (I will not do a long distance relationship again, I literally just got my heart crushed after falling for a long distance guy as I'm reposting this), that's also looking for a LTR, doesn't have kids but wants them in the future, living on their own (or that has lived on their own if not currently, and then willing to generally come my way should this work out lol), with transportation, that's a nonsmoker (I'm allergic to cigarette smoke), employed FT in a stable career, politically progressive, willing to relocate to the rural area I'm in if things get serious in the future as my business isn't portable, monogamous, not religious, emotionally and functionally available, and with good communication skills as that really does resolve a lot of issues in most relationships.

I'd really like to connect with someone based on everything outside the bedroom given that I'm looking for a LTR and not a fwb/hookup. Please message me so we can get to know each other in all those other areas, meet up when we're comfortable doing so, and then get into the sexual stuff beyond what I've written below. So, trying to add a little nuance here, I'm looking for my life partner who is also submissive in the bedroom, not a submissive person that wants to be my partner, if that makes sense. I'm not into the sissy thing/feminine men, I'm looking for a masculine guy that wants me to be in charge in the bedroom. Also don't enjoy degradation/humiliation/chastity - I'm in charge but want to make you feel good, too, and I'm gonna need access to your cock for that lol. Ideally a free use arrangement haha (within reason ofc). If you made it this far, thanks for reading, I hope you have a great day!