Long post ahead, you’ve been warned 🤓

Looking for someone to get to know… share parts of our day via text/vm, snuggle, geek out, watch movies, go on adventures - in and out of the bedroom.

I have a decade-ish of experience in bdsm/ddIg. Being into ddlg is not a must. Happy to talk about kinks whenever you’re comfortable. I have a FET profile I am happy to share. Looking for a relationship where kink is part of our dynamic, not the only thing.

I've been a teacher for the better part of 22 years, and that definitely has helped shape who I am as a dom. I want to help my sub be their best/most authentic self. I will only make rules for that reason, never just to have rules. I am a natural caregiver, nurturer and love to cuddle. I will be your biggest cheerleader, but I also have no problem calling you out on your shit. I can handle brattiness when necessary, but don’t like it constantly. A sweet prince/ss is also pretty awesome.

Exactly what I'm into as far as kinks go depends a lot on what the other partner enjoys.I really enjoy exploring with the right person/chemistry. I tend towards the softer/daddy Dom side of things, but I also have a primal side that comes out with the right connection. When I know my partner enjoys the pain, I enjoy giving it.

Vanilla me: I'm a 45 year old painter, reading tutor, and a geek. Most of my art features ancient artifacts from around the world juxtaposed with graffiti. I love learning new things. I’m very into art, books, music, movies/pop culture (especially Star Wars, Marvel, Disney, Dune). More into fun dates (going to parks, festivals, museums… road trips to explore new places) or cuddles/movies at home or bonfires and music vs a loud bar or party. I'm not a sportsball person at all

I am hoping for an in-person relationship at some point, so being within some hours of central Ohio helps a lot. I don’t have an issue with long distance/online if there’s a connection, and intention to meet once we get to know/like each other.

I love deep conversations (sapiosexual for sure) and enjoy sending text (and/or)voice messages on/off through the day. Also enjoy movie “watch parties” and other ways to spend (virtual) time together if we can’t be in the same place. Communication, consistency and mental health awareness are musts.

There are photos of me in my profile because physical attraction matters. I’d like to see one of you sooner than later.

📚 Sorry about the length of the post, but I think it’s good for everyone to have an idea of what they might be getting into.

⭐️ Please tell me a little about you, why we might be a good match, when you message.