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35 [M4F] #Online Stern Successful Dom Seeks Sub Who Craves Structure and Control
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jeanfafilzevr is a male age 35 looking for a female in online
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I don't do role-playing. I want to get to know you. Make a connection, have a conversation. I'll ask a lot of questions. Some of them will make you uncomfortable. Eventually you'll learn to love it when I make you uncomfortable. In the initial stages of our connection, we will get to know each other and find out if we are compatible. This is because I'm looking for a long term sub. Someone to listen to my commands, no matter what, when I say, how I say and how often I give them. It makes no difference to you. All you will concern yourself with is obeying. This won't happen straight away, a trust will need to be built between us.
The kind of sub I'm looking for usually hides this part of her from her real life. She has a good job or is good in school and has a good family. And is seen as the quintessential good girl. But something yearns inside her for being a plaything for a master. She aches for that pulsing between her legs when she listens to her owner. She can't get the same feeling in her real life, no matter how much she tries. That feeling is only there when she gives in to that slutty side of herself, underneath the mask she shows to her friends and family. Usually, this woman is in a relationship. Married or with a boyfriend. And she knows that if she said this out loud to him, that she ached to be someone's slutty plaything, he'd look at her differently. But I will provide that escape for her. Make her go places the man in her life could never take her.

Public me: For the outside world I'm successful, reserved, well liked and have my life together. I'm 35 years old, 6'3'', fit but not jacked, attended top undergraduate and graduate schools, well traveled, speak 4 languages, and have a range of eclectic interests. I've had past vanilla girlfriends and a large circle of friends who just know me as exactly I've described above.
Private me: In the bedroom, I enjoy control and I take over. I'm sadistic, rough, somewhat manipulative, demanding and unpredictable. Beyond the physical, I crave having someone to mold and make better. I want someone to use and control yes, but I also want someone whom I can help improve; to help her achieve her goals, set timelines, establish objectives and administer punishments if not met.
There's the public you: Bubbly, cheerful, well educated, intelligent, on the path towards a great career or degree, you have good friends, a loving family, a leader, a feminist and for all intents and purposes a well put together strong woman.
The private you: No one would guess what goes on inside your mind. You find yourself in a state of turmoil or indecision. There's an emptiness. You feel a deep need to let go. There's dark thoughts, sometimes you can't understand them. But you recognize your urges, your need. You want a firm hand to grab the metaphorical leash around your neck and lead you. you want to give up control, you want to be told what to wear, you want to used... above all else you want to please.
Why am I doing this? Two reasons: a) connection and b) stress relief. I lead a busy high stress life and I find having a place to express my sadistic side is a wonderful source of stress relief. If the idea of being a human stressball is appealing to you, you move to the front of the line.
How do we proceed: We get to know each other and then move to Skype / Discord. I find myself attracted to girls who are in shape or actively working towards getting in shape. Open to all races and ethnicities. Drop me a note with your age, location/timezone, a short description of yourself and the name of the last book you read and we can go from there.
I look forward to getting to know you.

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