Hey there!

I'm looking for a Dominant man with a dirty mind and a loving heart in Sweden (Stockholm area).
The text is pretty long because I'm trying to be thorough, but I'm sure that you'll be fine with reading just what peaks your interest :P

While I love many other aspects of a D/s dynamic, what I crave for is a relationship in which I can just let go and be able to expose myself, be vulnerable, and submit without being afraid of having my heart broken.

I believe that what I'm looking for takes time and is quite hard to find, so it's really important to me that we build a connection that goes beyond pure sexual interest. That should be obvious by now, but it doesn't hurt to stress that I'm not interested in dirty talk or sexting just for the sake of it. We may get there if we feel like it, but I doubt it'll happen in our first or second chat.

I know, I know, per my experience, many guys are expecting subs to be all accepting and obedient. Some even assume that all of us love being degraded and humiliated. Well, while some level of all those can be interesting, I may not fit all those boxes perfectly, and sometimes my brat side shows up. I also believe that our relationship is what we make of it, and we should be able to try things out to see what works for us or not.

My favorite way to get to know someone after chatting for a bit here is through voice calls. So that would be ideal. I'm also ok with exchanging photos after we've established we are interested in one another.

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About myself, I'm a bit of a nerd, but just a bit. I'm very silly and make terrible jokes all the time. I'm romantic but also cynical somehow. I'm not Swedish and I don't speak the language. I also don't look Swedish, in case this is important for you. I have a background in engineering, but worked with multiple things while trying to find where I fit in the world. I think I found it, but I'm not super sure yet.

I like to think I'm ok with most topics, but I don't engage in low effort conversation. If I'm interested, I show it. If you don't, I understand you're not into it and move on. I gained some weight in the past few years and I'm ready to do something about it. But I have a history of eating disorders (that matches when I actually liked the way I looked) so I'm taking my time and being careful to not fall in that hole again. If you're looking for someone skinny and fit, I'm not your girl, but I appreciate the support to get back on track, if you're ok with that.

I watch too many shows and read less books than I used to, but I'm trying to change that. I'm also trying to spend more time outside and find new hobbies that don't involve being at home playing video games or puzzles. I love pets, but I don't have any. I'd love to meet and become friends with yours, if you have them.

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So, if you're looking for something similar, you're willing to have a few chats, see if we are compatible as multifaceted human beings that care and laugh about the same silly things, please, send me a chat request or message.