I am looking for something VERY specific with this post. There must be a mature, intelligent woman that is curious about exploring her submissive side, but also too shy and/or too smart to post on her own. Is it you?

In your career, you are accomplished and successful and a boss. You are married, and you run everything in your household. You spend all day bossing people around and making all the decisions. But you are tired of being in charge and in control of everything in your personal life and job.

You also feel sexually unsatisfied or neglected at home. You are not necessarily looking to cheat, but you are here scanning Reddit out of curiosity, or just looking for some form of arousal. And giving up some form of control is something you are curious about, or crave, or need. You have a submissive side, and you are looking for something safe as an outlet to explore these feelings.

As for me, this fills a void and a need that I do not get at home. I’m married, dominant, and interested in any form of control, but my specific interest is orgasm control, orgasm denial, edging and teasing. Putting this all together, here is my simple proposal to you. I want to control your orgasms. I want to decide when and if you get to have one. How would this work? We would figure it out together, but here is one idea…

You read this far, so we assume you are not satisfied by your partner, and you have to take things into your own hands. So when you are wanting and ready to masturbate, you will have to ask me for permission to have an orgasm. Sometimes I will say no, and you will just edge yourself and stop. Sometimes I will say yes. Sometimes I will say yes but impose some specific conditions. We can establish rules to address life’s realities and inconveniences, such as family, work and timely responses. If you are interested, the details are all negotiable.

I am only looking to correspond online, by direct message or email. Maybe eventually voice if we really connect. I would want this to be on-going, and I would only do this with one person. Getting to know you, your likes, your dislikes, your limits... all off that is critical to build this to the intensity you want and need.

My interest in this goes beyond filthy, dirty chat. Of course, that is part of it! But so is witty banter, friendship, and support. I know this can be an arousing, intense, and satisfying way to explore this for the right person in the wrong circumstance. Definitely get in touch if you immediately connect with anything I wrote here, or even if you just find yourself intrigued!