Hey readers/potential prospective partners. You can call me K.

Alright first let's get the about me bit out of the way.

I'm 180cm well built and strong with big arms and shoulders but a belly rather than rippling abs. So you probably won't see me on any cologne adverts. I've got red hair and the fair skin and aversion to intense sunlight that comes with it.

I enjoy going to the gym. Competitive sports, getting lost in a fantasy world and debating. I'm a pretty classic ENTP personality type. I enjoy teasing and winding people up but I'm also an excellent listener and incredibly supportive. Once your mine I back you 100%.

What I'm looking for.

I'll start by saying I don't care too much about age. Older, younger, more or less or similarly experienced. I'm happy to talk to anybody who's interested and see if we click.

Ideally you will be in the UK so we can look at transitioning to in person but I'm fine with remote to start with and wouldn't rule out LD with somebody I got on great with.

I believe the vetting part of the process is important for both of us. So I'd want somebody who is curious about me and wants to know more. I won't be jumping into calling you anything and I get turned off incredibly quickly by anybody who starts calling me daddy or sir without prior consent.

If you are the kind of person who's curious, kind and likes the feeling of being protected. Owned. Cared for and wanted then we are likely going to be a good fit. I want somebody who I can talk to throughout the day not just about kinks. You don't need to have similar interests to me but having your own interests and passions is sexy as hell.

The kink stuff.

So it's fair to say I'm pretty experimental. I'm happy to give most stuff a go at least once.

At the core of who. I am though is somebody who seeks control. I want to dictate what you wear. I want rules in place to enforce good behaviour and habits. I want you to be able to switch off and seek joy from serving.

At the same time. If that requires a firm hand I'm perfectly capable of delivering. I enjoy impact play and I certainly have a sadistic streak both physically and mentally.

Humiliation and degrading are both areas I enjoy. They aren't essential in a dynamic but I like having a wide range of options and a lot of the areas I like to explore fall into this space.

It's worth noting I rarely verbally degrade. I prefer the dichotomy of verbally praising and rewarding a partner while they demean themselves for me.

I'd also be interested in role-playing. Ive not explored it much but definitely interested in doing it more. Same with CNC but only down the line and only with a very trusted partner

There's a lot more of course but we can go into detail on that later.

For limits obviously anything illegal is off limits. Scat Vomit and blood do nothing for me but I am open to watersports but its a low priority personally. I have little to no interest in breath play.

I also don't think I'd do well with a little who is big into age regression.

Lastly because I know its important to some and I want to be up front about it. At some point in the dynamic I will want pictures. Especially if we are more online focussed.

First SFW to verify each other before we start then NSFW once you are comfortable.

I'm a visual creature. I will want to see you complete my tasks and obeying instructions. I will never pressure you for them or put a timeline on when. But if you know you will never ever send them then I respect that but it does mean we won't be compatible in the long term so I'd prefer to not get attached at all.

Alright wow. If you got here thanks for reading you've done an incredible job getting through that wall of text.

If you've cheated and just skipped for a TLDR you are shit out of luck.

But if I've managed to catch your attention drop me a message, introducing yourself and telling me more about yourself.