Hello hello! So I’m looking for a Dom to guide me into the BDSM world. I’ve been researching quite a bit and learning what I do and do not want. I want to try to be a little bit more specific in this post so please take the time to read it thoroughly.

I’m looking for a dom who is taller than me (5’11) and between the ages 25-36. I’m looking for something long term, so no online play, hookups, or short dynamics. I really would like to get to know you as a person first as well. I’m very much a beginner so having a friendship set in place first would be ideal for me. I’m looking for a dom who isn’t constantly demanding. I would like someone who’s a bit soft but also strict when necessary. Someone a bit meticulous as well and we can chat more in depth about that later on. If you enjoy giving tasks and some forms of TPE, that’s a plus and something else we can discuss.

On the SFW side, I do ask that you’re at least a little dorky or however you like to call it. Whether that be enjoying video games, playing table top games, enjoying books, etc. I really love those things myself and would love to have that in common. Watching anime or fun shows together would be absolutely amazing and something I’d really enjoy.

Now here’s a bit about me. I am a 5’11, AA woman who’s on the thicker side. I am working on losing a couple pounds but, I don’t plan on losing too much. I love having a bit of pudge. I have big goals for the future and I really enjoy chatting about it. I do feel like I tend to lean towards being soft and obedient. I do admit that I have a bit of a teasing streak though. I don’t really know what to say when describing myself so please feel free to ask me as many questions as you’d like!

I think that’s all from me! If you do reach out, please introduce yourself (ASL) and tell me about some of your hobbies and your favorite color. I will only answer messages that include this information. Thank you so much for taking the time to read my ramblings! Looking forward to chatting with you.

Xoxo